I was chased by a married man he never wore his ring or spoke about his wife he would send me 7 or so emails a day saying he was just my friend then one night he came over and we had beautiful sex, but i felt guilty and freaked out he still wants to be my friend what should i do. i know i should just walk away but its easier said then done.
2006-08-10 00:43:17 · 22 answers · asked by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump his assets
2006-08-10 00:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my lifetime two of my bests friends have been seduced the same way at it started with emails and it was at work....your not marrying material but you are good enough to have sex with...that is what he is saying to you....by his actions not his words...do what you want but your only hurting yourself...his wife which never did anything to you...and especially his kids if he has any...and say the perfect idea happened he left his wife his kids didn't get messed up over it and he married you...you guys get into a fight...he doesn't come home or comes home late that night....do you trust him...? just imagine how you would feel if your dad did that or if your husband did that...would you say ok dad i understand or would you been hurt....i know love passion blah blah blah...it is so intense because he has no commitment he has to deal with just a game....
2006-08-10 07:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by tweetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake but now you have a chance to make a better choice for yourself (and for his wife too). He is not your friend. Block him from your e-mails and be careful. It's too bad he knows where you live; that could get dangerous! Of course it's not easy to just walk away but it's easier than staying in a relationship that is not only a dead ender but could be disastrous. If he comes around, call the police. QUICKLY!
2006-08-10 07:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself one questions, would you want your husband to cheat on you? How would it make you feel? It is wrong to get involved with a married man. Even if he is unhappy. He needs to leave and get a divorce and then pursue another relationship. If you feel guilty then that should tell you it is wrong. Leave him alone and find someone who is not attached.
2006-08-10 08:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You knew how he felt about you,you could have tell him off or tell him that he need to stop and he doesn't you are going to tell his wife.you never should have sex with him how would you feel if that was your husband you wouldn't want some else doing that to you,since you made a mistake make sure it never happened again.
2006-08-10 07:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women i can say tends to get harder way to reject the man that she had sex before...
Hm...I understand your difficulties, but tell yourself, to move on and far from him is the only way out from hell...keep yourself busy with lots of adventures?Enjoy yourself with friends or boozing out in a pub with a group of friends might help...
2006-08-10 07:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know that he was married before you slept with him?if you did you were asking for trouble and heartache coz there is no way he will leave his wife to be with you.if you didn't know then what kind of a girl are you that jumps into bed with someone before knowing him well?
2006-08-10 07:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I know i should just walk away but its easier said then done"
You're right, but then you know you should and no one said it *would* be easy. Do it anyway. Block his emails. He doesn't want to be your "friend". He wants a mistress.
2006-08-10 08:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r a little unfaithful so feel guilty but try to take care of urs for next moves, n t c 4rom him he is just using u !
2006-08-10 07:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best hope the wife don't catch on your messing with her man you dont want an agry wife at your door step
2006-08-10 07:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by precious_52804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married men is not the way to go..........there could be huge consquences later on, especially with the wife....if she finds out {and she will if it keeps on}she will be at your door,atleast I would.....find you a nice single man and get a life started with him........
2006-08-10 07:57:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋