I am single by the way, she is the married one.
2006-08-10 00:42:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because she is married? oh great answer ... i have realised that duh
2006-08-10 00:51:00 · update #1
You must not under any circumstances get involved with this woman. You obviously know it's wrong but maybe you haven't worked out how wrong. The pain you will both cause will affect a lot of people for a very long time. If she is having problems in her marriage you should encourage her to make it better not lead her further away from her marital vows. My hubby recently had a fling and I can tell you it's very painful and will take a very long time to get over.
2006-08-11 07:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your right because she is married is the first perfect answer the second one, would because it is morally and bibically wrong. If she is that type of women, how many other single men has she become friendly with over the years? I think you need to ask your self what happens if her husband finds out, and do you know how big he is? If not I am not sure this is the right choice for you to make.
2006-08-10 08:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the problem is not that she is married but that at least one person is being lied to, dishonesty is bad for all relationships.
If she is prepared to lie to her husband, then what reason is there for you to believe that she will not also lie to you?
A relationship built on and perpetuated by lies, no matter now casual or fleeting is destructive on a personal level to all involved. You can have a casual relationship with somebody that involves consent and honesty. This is the responsibel thing to do. personally what I find morally arguable about your situation is that you do not have the consent of all involved and somebody is in the dark I assume?
Even if you do not see the prospect of casual sex with somebody who is married as morally wrong, you have no reason to trust anything this person says. She could be using you for reasons that you are not yet aware of. If you have cause to quarrel with this women for her lies or deceit then you really have no reasonable comeback since this would make you a massive hypocrite.
nothing good can be gained from it, but if you feel that you want to go ahead and at least be safe and aware of the risk which you're putting yourself at.
good luck
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2006-08-10 08:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if her husband found out it would hurt him terribly and then he would hurt you terribly, plus a married woman that has affairs is usually using the man. You are single and should be going out with a single person so that you have a goal (marriage). Her husband has probably made love to her the night before unaware that the woman he loves just might be thinking of someone else, because she can never be totally yours whilst married. because you would hate it if she was your wife doing the same to a single man, because morally, you are wrong.
2006-08-10 14:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because one day if you are married (or would be so lucky) your wife will be asking the same question on Yahoo Answers about whether she should get friendly with a man when she is married, what would you answer?
2006-08-10 07:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever we say, you'll do what you want ...
1. She's married - presumably has kids too? So - you have a good chance of wrecking 3 lives at least
2. If her husband finds out, he's likely to give you a beating
2006-08-10 07:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its WRONG. She has a man in her life already, and when she took her marriage vows she promised to be faithful. It might not mean too much to her, but you stop and think hon- you will be married one day, and how would you feel if this **** happened to you?? Find a single one (less hangups anyway, and less chance of getting your face kicked in).
2006-08-10 19:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by k0005kat@btinternet.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even want to be with an infaithful, deceitful and cheating woman? Haven't you lost your respect for her when you knew you could be "very friendly" to her. Go find a single lady
2006-08-10 07:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by MNT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Blight....
Going with a married person is like a blight on your life. Just forget it.
Furthermore, yuh know you living in a country where people have a right to bear arms...so think again. Any CAT worth yuh life?
2006-08-10 07:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may see you as an escape route out of her marriage-do you want her full time or just for a one off sex session?If she can do that to her husband,would you expect her to be faithful to you?Does she see other men,if so be careful you don't end up with an STD.You are obviously doubting yourself or you wouldn't be asking us to give you reasons why you shouldn't.
2006-08-10 07:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by sanilav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋