He asked why I always give him expensive clothes? I did not told him that because I love him, I just told him that I just want to make him happy and I can afford it! I told him that I am not expecting in return just be nice to me! I don't wanna lose him,how can I handle the situation?
2006-08-10 00:14:16 · 6 answers · asked by Bruno 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Why shower a straight man with your love and care? Why don't you do it to someone who deserves it? How about a gay man?
It doesn't matter you want anything back or not. He is bound to have a relationship of his own but the way you lavish on him may put strains on his relationship.
2006-08-10 07:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing based on what you have said... You can bet he is pretty sure you are gay ... it would prolly be a good thing to confirm it.. whether he is OK with it or not.. if he doesn't know... he is obviously in denial... let him know... see what happens...its not clear to me that hes not OK with the idea of homosexuality to some degree at least, otherwise those have to be some super nice clothing that he cant get on his own or from anyone else and hes just waiting till you stop to walk away....
2006-08-10 01:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen you should let him no how you feel! If he cant hang and he don't want to be your friend then it wasn't meant to be. There are other friends out there don't get hung up on one person. Make sure he wants to be friends with you because your you and not because you got extra coins in which you lavish him with gifts!
2006-08-10 00:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it is unfair that you are not being completely honest with him. I think that since you are wooing him with gifts that you owe it to him to tell him you are gay. It is like you have one foot in the closet and one out. You can not straddle like that, in or out. With one foot out and one in, you are causing yourself undue stress, anxiety and emotional issues to come.
2006-08-10 00:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by onejazzyjul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you want to have sex with him but do not have the gut, if you do´nt ask then you dont get any. poor you, if you are my b.f, i will whip you into sharp.
2006-08-10 00:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy him a thong.
2006-08-10 00:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by jewingengleman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋