isn't it similar to being raped or prostitution or something?
2006-08-09 23:57:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married and I want to have sex with my husband; if a woman doesn't want to be with her husband, there is something wrong.
2006-08-10 00:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by kyeann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure that there is such a thing as obligatory martial sex. In a marriage, like any other relationship if your no interested then say no. If that is not enough then you need to let someone know that your response is not taken seriously, and if you feel that you are being forced into sex then you have the right to take legal action. Seek help from your local domestic violence center they will be able to help you with the right decisions to make.
2006-08-10 08:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been part of my marriage and been married for almost 22 years, there is no such thing unless your with the wrong person, it must be horrible to have to perform like a tiger in a zoo, sex is much better on impulse any day, I would never, ever just have obligatory sex and would never ever expect my husband to have it either, love will show you it definitely is not necessary ever.
2006-08-10 07:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if a person doesn't care to have sex, she should have expressed these feeling before the marriage, so the man can decide whether to marry her under these terms. This is the right thing to do. But in reality, over 95% of men and women enjoy sex.
2006-08-10 07:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REALITY... the real question should be "how do men cope with obligatory marital sex?".
Ponders the thought, is it truly prostitution.
2006-08-10 09:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know it was obligatory! I thought it was something that we did because we enjoyed being with one another in that way....Maybe I should talk to my hubby and see if I missed something in our vows?!? If he isn't in the mood, we don't do it, if I'm not in the mood we don't do it...Its as simple as that...Sex in a marriage should never be looked at as an obligation..It is a privelage, not a right!
2006-08-10 07:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not.. if your mature enough to own up to your marriage vows, and realize theres things in a marriage that sometimes u may not feel up to doing but you have to.. and it goes both ways, not just for women.. you've taken a vow to give of yourself to your spouse for the rest of your life.. and if u live by your vows, then u know that you always have to do what is right even if it doesnt "feel" good at the moment, or suit your "needs" at the moment.. and sexual needs are just one aspect of a marriage, doesnt mean u have to always have to say yes, to having sex, but at the same time but at the same time u cant expect a man or woman that has an active sex drive to wait 6 months till your in the mood..
2006-08-10 07:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should a woman have to, any more than a male? The thing is, some women continue to demand equal treatment and then don't stand up for themselves and ask for sex when they want it. Is this because they don't want to seem like a prostitute, or that they fear it cheapens them somehow? STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES, LADIES! We can handle it!
2006-08-10 11:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have only just realised how important sex is to men, far more than it is for us women, It sadly took my hubby's fling to show me. I thought men had a sick one track mind but it's not that at all. Try to find out for yourself. We have different needs sexually and you need to find out with your husband what works for you both. I didn't know I could enjoy sex, but now I have a great sex life, still with the cheating husband too.
2006-08-11 15:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they don't have to do it?!?!?!?!?!
If forced by their husband to have sex - it is still rape!
If they never want sex with their husband, but do it to keep him happy because he has money or whatever and they like the lifestyle he provides, then they have made themselves prostitutes!
i hope to hell my wife still wants sex with me after years of marriage - I'll be taking more notice of the look in her eye tonight!!!!!!
2006-08-10 07:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by le_coupe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋