I wasn't feeling well last night and told my fiance. He totally ignored me, both times. Finally, he told me that he thought if he didn't acknowledge how I felt, that I would continue to get work done (He has a home business). That was after I had ran to the store for supplies and told him after doing a couple small tasks that I wasn't doing anymore as I really didn't feel good at all. We had been getting along fine until that point. How would you feel, and what would you do if you were in my position?
2006-08-09 23:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by wellbeing 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How would I feel? I would feel a bit hurt and upset that he didn't acknowlege what I was saying. What I would do is tell him that he's being selfish for not acknowleging the fact that I don't feel well.
2006-08-10 00:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work on the negative effect if someone tells me to do something I either don't do it, or do the complete opposite. If someone asks me to do something 9 times out of 10 I will do it, but there is always the time I can't be arsed, so I don't do it. The point I am trying to make is that some people will do all the giving and some people will do all the taking, but I feel that it has to be an even split of both.
2006-08-10 07:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by chrisnewcars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but i think you should rethink about marrying this guy. If he doesnt believe you now and doesnt look after you what would happen when you are married. Things only get worse not better....Dont think you can change his behaviour somehow either, many have falling in that trap including my selt....You cant change them.
Keep an eye on things, and if you dont feel 100% for this guy, then break it off before its too late...before you fall pregnant and get trapped in a loveless miserable marriage like mine....
Good luck
2006-08-10 07:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, maybe he thought u were being lazy. Or maybe he is just selfish....its pretty weird, if my fiance said that i would show 100% compassion and not be a jerk.
It depends senorita, but personally from my gut feeling, from what i read, HE IS A JERK!!!
2006-08-10 07:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He odesn't give a damn about you or your feelings and you still want to marry the guy. Imagine feeling like that fore the rest of your life, think about it. Sort him out before he takes his trashy ways to the alter.
2006-08-10 07:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you kept on doing things,if you don't feel well you take a break slow down.Not continue to other things.
2006-08-10 07:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What! Did you want him to take you to the doctor or something. I don't get it, if you wanted him to go to the store why didn't you just ask?
2006-08-10 06:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get upset! i would not do anything till he apologize to me!
if you are not feeling good then you should have not move at all! i mean you should have relax! he must have a lot in his mind but that is no reason to be insensitive.
2006-08-10 06:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by yen12rs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'L BA HAPPY
TAKE IT EASY
2006-08-10 06:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by TOMMY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋