there is less expectations than the wife had ,i think so.
2006-08-09 23:53:44
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Many partnerships and marriages are dishonest, and they are formed around certain rules and regulations. A soul mate can be a wife or husband, in some cases, to become a soul mate one must do away with many coventional rules. I often talk to couples at my hedonistic resort about love and friendship and soul mates. If you can talk to your best friend about things that you could not with the one you love, something is fundementaly wrong with your realationship. A wife becomes a soul mate when you can tell her anything, and when she can do the same. Could you tell your partner what you fantasise about whilst making love? Honesty is the key, many realationships break down because of lack of trust leading to lies. Some couples decide to rid themselves of possessiveness and jealousy, those couples often become hedonists or develope a more open marriage, they then become best friends as well as married and still in love. Hedonistic couples do not cheat on each other, the need to do so has been dispensed with, they have fun, usually limited by their own rules, some do nothing with others, but they love the freedom and the knowledge that they could if they wanted to. If a hedonistic realationship fails, it would have done so even if the couple had never become hedonists. Some of the couples that come to my resort are in their teens, that surprises many, they are soul mates from the start, zero deception, total honesty, best of friends and lovers. I am not interested in converting anyone but the honesty of hedonism stops men from wanting to go down the pub with their mates, most would rather be at home fantasizing with their wives. Oh, by the way, I'm not a hedonist, I just run the place.
2006-08-10 07:59:57
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answered by Anonymous
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In friendship, there is less of an expectation, in return for the love and affection. In the marital relations, the bond and obligations are mutual. Further, in marriage, both husband and wife form a single unit, a family and therefore they need to face the trials and tribulations of life together. The husband and wife live together under the same roof; familiarity breeds contempt and the chances of friction are more between them.
2006-08-10 07:35:54
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answer #3
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answered by Anonymous
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Before marriage it is completely the opposite...
Girlfriend is more important that friends .. but after marriage when u r able to spend enough time together with ur wife .. and not as much time as u used to with ur friends ... men generally give a slight higher preference to friends... It is PURE ECONOMICS .. Demand Supply Ratio ...
However, not many people will argue that Wife along with Parents are the most important people in a man's life!
2006-08-10 06:55:45
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answered by Rez 1
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Because some husbands are idiots and they dont know the importance of their wife, when they loose her, they know then, but it is too late. I hate the guys that doesn't show respect for their wifes. They can go to hell!!!
2006-08-10 06:55:42
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answer #5
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answered by Sara 4
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Friends can not take place of wife. Friends are only for the outer world while the wife is for outer as well as inner worlds both.
2006-08-10 22:41:33
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answered by skp 2
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I think its this whole male-bonding thing.Also, Wives, women in general show men what they really are, what are their weak points, so their ego gets a beating. Just to feel better they turn to their friends(guys) where its like you scratch my back &I'll scratch yours.
2006-08-10 07:02:42
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answered by Heista 4
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coz frens dont behave like a wife all the time.
2006-08-14 00:07:25
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answered by angelic 2
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I dont think so, wife is your own shadow & you know that shadow is sometimes visible sometimes unvisible but actually shadow(WIFE) is allways with you.
2006-08-10 23:12:45
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answered by prince 6
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because friends can forgive big mistakes and wife remembers small one too..
2006-08-11 01:07:24
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answered by heart_intelligence 3
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