For married women?

Question

what are some things I can talk to my wife during sex to get her fired up?

Answer 1

I think that you need to find out her fantasies then talk to her about them, Also check she wants to be talked dirty to during sex it can put some women off.

Answer 2

It all depends on the woman. I personally like a little dirty talk (not much), but some women get off on really nasty talk & some women are completely turned off by ANY talk whatsoever. It's best to ask her!

I think foreplay - paying attention to HER physical desires - is what gets any woman fired up...don't think "oh I get a bl*w j*b"! That's not the kind of foreplay I mean!! You do all the work, let her enjoy it & see what happens...but don't forget to talk to her about what she might like in terms of verbage.

Oh...one more thing. I, myself, find it a turn-on when a man is more dominant, letting me be more submissive. Nothing kinky, just showing lustful desire....women need to know that they're desired! Don't always wait for her to make the moves.

Answer 3

Jeeeze, a bit of a personal question that, why don't you talk to her before you go to bed and ask her what she would like, she might shock and surprise you, you know talking to each other is just as important as anything that happens in bed between you both, buy a few of those love making books and take them into the bedroom with you both, it tends to help with whatever is locked up inside yourselves, just be honest with her and don't be shy, good luck.

Answer 4

ok its a joke but give it a try

a guy goes home to his wife wanting nookie, he knows she is pretty boring in bed and just lays there, mid way through sex he whispers in his wifes ear your great in bed, she smiled, then he whispered but your sister was better, then he just held on for dear life and enjoyed the ride lol

Answer 5

football,the largest prime number in the world,how good looking her best friend is,how ugly she is,how much you like to scerw her sister