I Am Always Suffering (LESS IN CONFIDENCE), And Now I'm Having A Job,And I Can't Do IT Good Cos Of This Diseas

Question

i have this less in confidence since i was born nd it's ruining every thing in my life...pls help, i'm crying now...
i'm about to get fired from my first job, i feel that they r all making fun of me...

Answer 1

confidence is hard to get. i've been where you are. jusst try and think to yourself. no one is making fun of you at your job. just try and do your best. if that's not good enough for the boss, thats ok. it doesn't mean you're not a good person, it just means he was riding you kinda hard. do your best and you'll do fine. don't worry about other's opinions. in reality, people are too concerned with their own matters to make fun of you. nobody is that cruel.

things will get better, but you have to help them along. take pride in yourself. you got a job. you're working and interracting with people. its really hard to do that. if you need more help, you can contact me via this page, and i can help boost your confidence. i've had to do it myself.

Answer 2

You have too much negative thoughts in your head -- "I don't know if I can do this; I don't know if they'd appreciate this.... etc..."
You're paranoid, too. The thought of other people making fun of you is already killing you while the percentage of its possibility could only be less than 1%.
You want to do something about it? Try something you will consider suicidal but will not actually hurt you physically: you can decide what's the right thing to do, especially at work, right? Then just do it without thinking about the possible consequence for your action. What you probably worry about is the consequence before you even make your move. But you are rather suffering the consequence already by not doing something or acting about what you are supposed to do.
Crying will not help you right now... assume positive results instead and plan ahead.

Answer 3

dont stay at home!spend it with the church and they will help u coz they are very kind!