PS thanks for the replies! :) feels good to hear ur advice. We got married 3 months back..after a relationship of over a year(we met in jan last year..) they werent really in contact b4 we got together. it started only after she came to know that we were goin on... She messages onto the mobile. Well, the chances of my husband changing his no. is remote as he's got his official and business contacts on the same... watever it is, she refuses to speak to me. iv known her to be v insecure, moody and jealous... ignoring till now hasnt really helped..will she take my silence as my husband keeping this away from me? coz that's not so.... im confused!!
2006-08-09 23:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communicate to your husband what you want.
Communicate to her what you want.
You can't control her.
You can request your mate not respond to her in certain ways.
2006-08-10 15:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by onemorealternative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
If you really want her to know that YOU know about it, you can send her a msg stating that you know all about her stalker behavior because your husband told you so. Ask her one last time to leave you guys alone. See what happens after that. Just remember not to send threatening msgs to her as she can use that as leverage against you. Then, stop all communication with her because if you don't, it might encourage her to keep doing it because she thinks she's getting attention from you and your husband. If changing his phone # is not an option, just have him delete the msgs. But like I said in your previous question, if she doesn't quit her stalking, you and your husband might want to file a restraining order against her.
2006-08-09 23:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry i have not understood.
2006-08-10 01:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋