If you know from personal experience, then which were you in the relationship? The cheater, or the one being cheated on? This question is for both men and women.
2006-08-09 22:45:01 · 30 answers · asked by lovehavok 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When ur in a relationship u just kno when the other 1 is actin outta character, its the little things that add up & start ringing the alarm bells, no matter how clever they think they are. I was cheated on, it sucks big time.
2006-08-15 12:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. They start working a lot of overtime:
He/She is working late hours more often
More out of town trips suddenly
Sudden trips to work at weird hours
2. Your Lover / Spouse is no longer interested in sex:
Huge Red Flag!
3. They like to say " It's your imagination":
Chances are if you suspect it - it is true.
4. They use the internet excessively:
You find your spouse is constantly online late at night when you go to bed.
Closes window or computer when you come in room.
Very defensive about spending time on the computer more often than usual.
5. Suddenly wanting to do new sexual techniques:
Where did they learn that?
6. You keep receiving hang up phone calls:
Why? - the person on the other end doesn't want to talk to you?
7. They start wearing different kinds of clothing,
start working out, pay more attention to the way they look....
8. They stop wearing their wedding ring:
Anyway, this is a few of the signs...My husband cheated on me!!!
I hired a private detective because my husband also turned into a big liar!!
2006-08-13 20:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by bobbi_jo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was the one being cheated on.
its the little things that start adding up. coming home later, not spending time with you, taking a shower before they say hello, talking on the phone and hanging up when you walk into the room.
mine was different because the sex stayed the same. there was no change in the sex life.
somehow you just know that something isnt quite right and you cant put your finger on it for sure.
when i found out that my man was cheating on me with my best friend who was more than a sister to me, i was devastated. not only did i loose the man who said that he would love me and be there forever, but i lost the best friend who was supposed to be there for me to use her shoulder. it took a long time to get over that.
and even longer to be able to trust anybody again. but...... i met a man who became my friend for over a year, then when we started seeing each other seriously, we had a great foundation for a relationship. its been 10 years and neither of us are going anywhere.
we have survived kids, his mine ours. we have survived everything so far and we will still survive because we have the foundation that we both needed to make it work.
he was smart enough to know that i was not ready for a real relationship when we met and he waited for me. i really respect him for that.
2006-08-16 02:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all at the same time as this surpassed off i become unmarried yet i slept with with the aid of astounding associates boyfriend so i did cheat on her in a experience. i become and nevertheless am 17, we slept jointly numerous cases over the era of sometime and evening, i ought to say approx 6times (no longer mendacity both) Neither persons felt to blame after wards untill about 2 weeks later wen i wanting to inform her. She went mad yet considering we've all made up except for me and the guy because she says if me and him ever communicate back then she'll under no circumstances tallk to us back. Im a scorpio and he become born august nineteenth wateva that signal is? there you go, dishonest aint worth it yet having said that ;)
2016-11-29 19:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the one cheated on and to tell you the truth, I had no idea until he left me for her. We were together for 2 years, 1 of which we lived together. He waited for me to do my night rotations at the hospital and the went out for the prowl. It hurts and it sucks, but life goes on. If your asking the question though, then you must have some feeling that something is going on.
2006-08-17 22:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by NeuroRN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on. His personality changed. He was a lot meaner and even distant. He worked long hours and he would leave to go to the store and not come back for a long time. Sometimes he was overly "friendly". He would encourage me to go out with the girls, when I got back the house would seem different. Your instincts tell you something is wrong. Always trust your instincts.
2006-08-17 17:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by Josie31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man thinks his girl is cheating, its very easy to find out.
All you have to is make love to her.
If the female thinks he is cheating on her, he will wash up after sex before he comes home if he is smart and don;t use soap, but the thing he will fail to do is pick out the pubic hairs from the lady he just banged and if they are different in color he's busted.
2006-08-16 11:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They watch their cell phone like it is a small child, it goes to the bathroom with etc. He may have to work late, alot, when before did not, personal hygiene rises, not to say he was gross before but now that gas station tshirt with a lightening bolt across the front with a grease stain and hole just wont do to go hang with the guys. And my favorite ....he will accuse you. His guilty conscience is appeased by turning the blame to you.
2006-08-17 13:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by tommi_williams2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attitude is HUGE. If there is a change for NO real reason. Lack of wanting to do family things. Change of plans, becuase they do not want to be seen with you or family members in case that "other" person is out there and they meet.
2006-08-17 18:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he at work all day and comes home smelling like he just got out the shower or you ask him where he was and he answer and then wait a week later and ask the same question and you get another answer he or she is cheating
2006-08-17 11:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋