my husband's ex girlfriend STILL cant leave us alone. not only did she refuse to speak to me when i called up on his mob when she met up with him b4 our marriage(i had consented-apparently wanted to meet him for one last time, according to her), now she occassionaly messages and asks funny questions like whether he's happy....he did reply saying that there's no point in asking or continuing the conversation about it now.....should i give her a peace of mind by irritating her with her own funny questions???
p.s. their relationship lasted for 3 months and ended in 2004!
2006-08-09 22:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her off. thats ur husband not hers and she needs to learn to back off. and you should have him be with you while it happens. when she comes by so you can tell her off ask those funny questions she would be asking him
2006-08-09 22:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by june 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's stalking him. I don't advise communicating with her as this will only escalate things and make her do it some more. Don't ever show her that it's getting to you as this is what she wants. She sounds like a vindictive b**ch alright!. Kuddos to your husband for telling her to f***-off. You didn't specify where she's sending the msgs. If she's sending msgs to your husband's phone, he may want to consider changing his number. If it's through email, just delete it. She will eventually stop. If she doesn't, file a restraining order against her as she has stalker tendencies.
2006-08-09 22:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a psycho! Let the man know that this is the start of a stalker, and that you will get the police involved if it continues.
2006-08-09 22:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by finis b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most answers already suggest that she must be emotionally imbalanced. You should tell your husband to avoid her and find her relatives and tell them to take her to a professional for help
2006-08-10 07:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice your hubby to change his cell no. If not, don't reply to her nonsense. If you tell her off, it shows that she is near to sucess in souring your relationship with your hubby.
Don't fall into the trap.
2006-08-09 22:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she's still gogo abt ur husband or maybe some kind of psycho.. i think its ok if u strt irritating her.. but i doubt if she'll really get bugged up coz if she were sensible, she'ld have left u guys alone..
2006-08-09 22:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by ashishnathsingh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I even have, there is one I wrote that's open top now contained in the gay, Lesbian and Transgendered section. it somewhat is referred to as "help me please! i'm so embarrased! my life is OVER!" circulate in there and submit some humorous comments.
2016-09-29 02:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by shimp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like "Fatal attractions". Just both of you not bother about her and it may end.
2006-08-09 22:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor girl, just try to teach her and find some one and get married.
2006-08-09 22:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her stupid questions then tell her leave him alone or other actions will be taken
2006-08-09 23:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by jim h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋