im in a relationship for a long time and really love my g/f but recently we have hit into a rock. her parents rule her and say the most hurtful stuff to her but she still listens to them although i'm hurting cos she throws everything i say back into my face. I've tried talking and reasoning and now i've just given up but i cant leave her cos we have tried b4 and she means too much to me. Is there anything else i have forgotten to maybe do or say for her to understand that i am hurting.
2006-08-09 22:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
her and her parents and you need to contact dr phil. ASAP
2006-08-09 22:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First tell her why you're upset. My ex did that...hence the reason she's my ex. I hate people like that. Tell her how important she is but if she keeps it up you will NOT put up with the bullshit. You have got to let her know that if she doesn't change it you WILL leave...and if she CAN'T fix the problem, you gotta leaver her. I know it'll hurt and all, but my ex meant too much to me for too long, and I HAD to leave because I couldn't deal with all the bullshit. You gotta get outta this rut or leave her. Sorry it ain't better advice.
2006-08-10 05:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should give her enough time to get over it and see the mess she is putting u into.I was once like ur g/f but my b/f left me for sometime and that was when I realised how much I luved him and realised what I was putting him into.If she really luv u like u do I think she would feel ur pain.
2006-08-10 05:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋