when she found out about my sister being bisexual she called he a dyke and slut girl what do you guys think should I tell or should I not
2006-08-09 22:10:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, or she'll find out another way. But don't deal with that. Your mom is your mom and if she doesn't love you 'cuz you're bi then tell her you don't give a **** what she thinks about it.
2006-08-09 22:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should tell her, but when the time is right for you. Its the the truth-its your truth and you should not have to hide it. Lying doesn't help anyone. Now, how she excepts that is a different story, you should prepare yourself for the worst (based on how she reacted with your sister)...but she'll have to get over it to have a relationship with you. I wish you a lot of luck, I know that it is not an easy decision to make. A close friend of mine just came out to his parents and it was really difficult for him and his parents. So, good luck <3
2006-08-09 22:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by SegaGenocide 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u a lady. u lady must not hide anything from ur mothers.
mothers can help u something with thier wast experience which will help u when u hve kids.
else think of situation when ur kids do same to u.
so be open to atlest ur mothers.
bobby
2006-08-09 22:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. She will love you either way. You want her to love you for you right? If you don't tell her, a part of you will always feel unloved partially because you will have in your subconcious that she really doesn't know the real you
2006-08-09 22:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by donovan49_e71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well actually it isn't any of her business... If you feel the need to go for it and wait for the stones... Just being bi you can still bring boys around... It shouldnt be that hard to conceal...
2006-08-09 22:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up tp you if you dont want to deal with the same negativity your sister did i wouldnt but if you want to maintain a loving trusting relationship with her i would and then let her think what she wants cause as long as you love yourself and the one your with thats all that matters
2006-08-09 22:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till what time you will hide. So make her understand and tell her everything when you think she is in a good mood to listen and understand.
2006-08-12 19:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your mother should love you no matter what gender you are and whatever gender you prefer to be.
2006-08-09 22:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-09 22:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Unsteady M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell about our bi ness(lol)oh and she's kick our asses!
2006-08-09 22:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Pumpkin Osaka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋