Ok well me and him are really close like friends and i starting to fall for him alot....he says hes not ready to start a relationship yet because he thinks hes gonna lose me...he says he really cares about me alot...i care about him alot too...we say we love each other when we are leaving to go somewhere...but i still think i love him as more then a friend...what should i do?
2006-08-09 21:55:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take it easy....
i mean let things be..if they r to happen they will...its not like you havnt mentioned it to him...so he already knows about your feelings....the ball is in his court...
so just sit back and relax...have fun with him...enjoy life as it comes...
if your relationship is meant to be..it will happen.
2006-08-09 22:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off from him a bit. You need to see other people right now. Keep your friendship with him... but to continue to see each other under these conditions would only be torture for you, and he will get more and more uncomfortable. You never know what will happen down the road...but this would save your friendship with him...and it would save YOU your dignity. Besides, there is no surer way to find out if he DOES want you, than for him to see you getting involved with someone else. Either way you win. It sounds like this guy is too good of a friend to lose. Go out and meet new people!!! Good luck.
2006-08-09 22:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are the same situation as me, but for me it's not now, you know what should you do? you should let the time pass and find out what exactly kind of guy do you like? you may just like him coz you are closed to him, but have you ever try to stay away for a few month with out seeing? if you have never just try, and also you have to try to find the new friend, i mean male friend and try to learn him a little bit if you dont love him or dont want to give him some hope less, let try to get the new guy beside him then you will know, if you still think of him then just go straight to him and do what ever you want to, dont care anything then you will get what you want!
2006-08-09 22:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sengthavy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the meantime let you grow both in your friendship and let them grow or fall to love. Maybe you're not ready for the commitment yet. Enjoy the friendship that you had.
2006-08-09 22:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the rush to change things? Enjoy what you have now and if things change down the road all for the better and if not enjoy your friendship there hard to come by.
2006-08-09 23:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just be a very good friends.. start slow or u will regret. every best couple starts with a very good friend.
2006-08-09 22:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by chyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow and be cool
2006-08-09 22:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes congrats. finally you are in love
2006-08-09 21:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think twice!
2006-08-09 21:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him ....
2006-08-09 22:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by The Mediator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋