You see i have a family problem and i cant relly stand it anymore.... My parents got a divorce my dad has a gf and my mom has another husband and has another child. and i need comforting
2006-08-09 21:54:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well turn on your IM and talk to me, I can't promise you I will be able to comfort you but if you want to talk, my parents are divorced as well, my father has moved on, my father moved on many years before my parents got a divorce but my mom had said they stayed together because of the children, I really don't know if I even let that bother me anyways because I know it's not my fault, anyways like I said if you wanna talk IM me
2006-08-09 22:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty much have the same problem. My parents also got a divorce, my mom has a boyfriend, but my dad is not dating. I understand how you feel. I too was very sad and at times i still am. But one person who helped me was Jesus Christ. He has helped me. Before my parents got a divorce my mom and dad split up of course. I went and lived with my aunt and 2 cousins. I had to change schools. I was about an hour from where i used to live for 7 years. I was just torn up. I'm going to be honest with you, I stopped trusting God, because everything was being messed up. I was so sad. I was mad at my mom because she cheated on my dad and I caught her kissing this one guy and i just burst out into tears because I told her that she was married and what she was doing was wrong, but she didn't care. My dad was being good to her, and thats the part i just don't understand. But then later on I finally got to go back home, so now im living with my dad. Now I see that God was in everything! I just needed more faith. I want you to know that He is there for you and that He loves you! I hope i have helped you!
2006-08-10 05:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of issues here, dear. First,you weren't responsible for the divorce.Second, find a close friend or a relative that you can confide in about your feelings. If none is about, consider a counselor at school. You can also join a local group for children of divorce. You'll find yourself plenty of company. good luck, dear.
2006-08-10 05:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is a problem? You dad and mom did not get along well and separated for the better life they had in their mind. They are fine. Is it that they do not look after well is a problem? I hope you can take care of your self and do not listen to others opinion!
2006-08-10 05:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey alex. sorry you're going through this. sucks. i think you need some hobbies to take your mind off the home situation. maybe play a sport, take up painting, go to a youth group etc. ALSO make sure you surround yourself with REAL friends, not superficial people. people you can talk to and ask for advice, cos that way you wont keep everything in cos that will just make you feel worse.
2006-08-10 05:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your age allowed , you may go for a job and start your life a fresh , if minor , pl do bear with the time and pray a lot with courage and patience , ensure somehow your studies should complete , so you have degree and can get a job .We will keep you in our prayers .
2006-08-10 05:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it's hard but what can you do? get mad, not talk to them, have a fit. or hate your other sibling? why not try to work it out and be Friends with your dads new wife and your mom's new husband. and try loving your baby brother or sister. what ever you do they will stay together. so why not enjoy your new family. give it a try. love works better that hate and anger.
2006-08-10 05:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dun understand whts the question
but dun be sad theyre juz tryin to find the one they love, think on the bright side, its better than not gettin divorce n stick wif each other for another 60 years which they dun actually love each other rite, u want both of them to be happy too, dun worry so much then, if u reli feel tht bad, stay at ur best frds home, hav fun, forget all those stuff
2006-08-10 05:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by mion 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well contact me and I'll chat with ya. I know how you feel...my mom has been married 4 times. It sucks, but it's just life.
2006-08-10 05:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good news is, you wont have to live at home forever. We you are old enough, you can go out into the world and say goodbye to them and their problems.
Dont get down. Pity them instead.
2006-08-10 05:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋