That person is your best friend for a year and you trust her but she controls me in whatever i do and treats me like a dog all the time, blackmails me whenever shes mad, would do anything to suck up on our leader of our group just because she is also her bestfriend and is afraid to lose her to me, she is high tempered all the time and doesnt get the funniest jokes ever. Whenever i try to break free from her grasp she would always have an extra leash up her sleave in other words she knows how to make my life a living hell!!!!. She would do anything to make my life more miserable than it already is and when shes pissed she always take out her anger on me like im some kind of punching bag and she doesnt give a care in the world!!!! She always finds this reason to make me takes her money and would always want me to pay her back in a bigger amount!!!!!!!!! The worst part of her is that she tells on me about my secrets and my personal life and my feelings to my enemy and my crushes!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 21:28:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well...this is serious...all I can say is ''keep ur friends close but ur enemies closer''..take a stand against this nonsense and tell ur friend to stop this...also...ditching her and finding a better friend is the best solution...and be careful what u tell her...
2006-08-09 21:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't say, I don't have any enemies that I am aware of and I also don't have to many personal secrets that I am aware of either, I have never done any horrible things in my life that I feel the need to hide from anyone soooo, I guess if I thought I was going to be the next mayor or governor or president of something than maybe I might worry about some of the things that I have done in my past, but I guess if that were the case and my supposed friend went and told my worst enemy all of my weakness I would have to tell that friend goodbye don't ever come back , and I would never want to see or hear from them again
2006-08-09 21:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think this person is really your friend,have some courage and lots of confidence and stand up to her!!no-one has the right to make you feel like that but the only reason why she succeeds in it is because you allow her to do it.
my advice to you is if you want to get her back start thinking smart and be confident about yourself and your worth in the group.make sure you always have something on her so when she wants to blackmail you,you will be one step ahead of her.dont accept her money for any reason that gives her power over you!!people will treat you the way you want to be treated but you need to be firm and confident otherwise everyone is going to walk over you!!
2006-08-09 21:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please look at what you just wrote. You contribute to this problem by continuing to tell her your secrets. no one forces you to take their money and then make you pay back in a larger amount. Get some steel in your spine, dear, and loose this leech. Meanwhile, you might consider upping your standards what a friend is supposed to be. Being a doormat to them is not one of them.
2006-08-09 21:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r too good with her , i think you better break with her , she is only using you and will in little time throw u away like a rubbish.
i think you should try to make friends with people who are sincere and really likes you for wat u are. am sure their are people who would like to have you as friend and who need ur friendship
just tell this 'friend' that you no longer want to know her personal affairs and that you no longer want to share your personal afffairs with her.
then forget about her
it will maybe be hard for you because during one year ur 'friend' and you have come to be connected to each other ( at least you )
but it is the best solution to end contact with such people. they are person who are not happy in life and want people around them to be unhappy also.
so gud luck
2006-08-09 21:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by newgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Your friends do not repeat anything you say to anyone else (unless it's a joke or something), especially your enemies. Get a new friend....that ones broken.
2006-08-09 21:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by frogspeaceflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a friend. Total manipulator and a real bully. Get rid of this person as quickly as possible.
2006-08-09 21:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she or he is deserve to be called a friend. A friend wouldn't do something like that. I wonder how do you stand all these time with someone that absolutely annoying like this. I think you should stay away from your friend, she is absolutely dangerous.
2006-08-09 21:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by v4nil7a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell her anything anymore. Ignore her and do not be nice. Take charge of your life and tell her to "get lost" as she has already made your life miserable!!
2006-08-09 21:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay how can you consider your a friend when she blackmails you and acts like crap to you and always finds this reason to make me takes her money and would always want me to pay her back in a bigger amount!!!!!!!!! stupid and gay
2006-08-09 21:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by ajak a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋