My husband thinks it's cute and funny,but I feel silly and don't want to seem unsexy.
2006-08-09 21:04:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, that's adorably sweet. Um, well if you want to change it then simply imagine being a dirty litte btich [only with your husband like]; the more you do that the more you will change. Oh, and imagine it's easy to so sexully charged; you're gonna need that bit. One other thing- cute *is* totally sexy; so that is fine.
Einstein: 'imagination is more powerful than knowledge'.
2006-08-09 21:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did u have any bitter experience as a child ( sexual abuse or attempt to abuse) Otherwise were you scared on the first night thinking about the painfulness of the whole act and withdrew yourself? Find out the reasons for your uncommon shyness? There should be something that lingers in your mind that prevents you being open as far as married life is concerned.Or are you from an orthodox society where even thinking of sex is considered a taboo and you still considers those aspects when along with your husband??Probe... and you will find an answer and you yourself can solve this!!!
2006-08-09 21:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have some negative thoughts about sex that were taught when you were growing up?
Maybe your husband didn't help you to relax and explore the pleasure and intimacy of making love?
Maybe you feel all alone because your husband didn't try to consider your feeling and be understanding?
I encourage you to ask your man to take it seriously with you and help you with this issue. Perhaps you could consider seeing a marriage conselor.
2006-08-09 21:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lune 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you have never felt open with your husband about sex.
I had the same experience with my son's father.
it wasn't until I met other men that I was able to open up and be adventurous.
Sometimes we aren't completely compatible with the people we decide to settle with.
This is not a bad thing if your husband is capable of getting you to open up.
Your husband finds it cute because you are much older now and still have that innocence.
i think it gives him a sense of power and control.
The relationship sounds sexually limited.
2006-08-09 21:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by nubianbx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know its hard, I think its normal I have the same going on here, but I just do it and try not to think about things I have done. He must think your sexy.
2006-08-09 21:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by wildfire 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seems you have not enjoyed the sex fully till now -
2006-08-09 21:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hardil 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not about him its about you , you don't feel comfortable engouh to take charge , you feel unsure. Just let go , imagine you are someone who is more bold.
2006-08-09 21:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says he thinks it's cute, then don't worry about it. It means he really does think that.
2006-08-09 21:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by Staticx 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try a kinky scene with him or else change and try another stud bull.
2006-08-09 21:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
lol you are trying to be a victim lol
2006-08-09 21:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋