Should a woman,who is otherwise happy in her present love relationship ,reveal her past love failure to her lover?
2006-08-09 21:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by aquarian 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her lover insists that she tell him about her past love.She is afraid to lose him as she she knows he is too sensitive.He might not leave her,but he may not love her as he loves her now,after knowing about her past love.She had been denying of having any past love affair to him.If suddenly she reveals about it,he wont trust her and would imagine a number of irrelevant things related to her past?What shld she do in such a situation?
2006-08-10 03:11:50 · update #1
I don't think that it is necessary unless you want to. If you do, I would leave out the intimate details. Some of us men cannot handle it and become jealous. If you give all the details and the two of you run into your ex and if you starat talking, it is possible that your husband will become quite jealous for no reason.
2006-08-10 04:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would only do that if my past was affecting my present relationship in a negative way. Otherwise, what for? Unless my mate asks, I don't feel there's any need for him to know the nitty-gritty details. It may not be relevant to my present situation anyway.
2006-08-09 21:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, believe and admire fall into the comparable classification. without one or the different, there won't be ready to be love. i do no longer think of it incredibly is ideal to easily one gender. All human beings want love. concern is, some do no longer comprehend the thank you to get it or provide it lower back which finally ends up in unhappiness. Theoretically, absolutely everyone merits love and compassion, in basic terms some individuals do no longer deserve decent companionship.
2016-12-11 06:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you? Or Has he talked about his? Its not advisable at all. Why show him your failures! Is it affecting the way you are relating? Frankly, never let a man know that. If asked, be sure to include that the guy was a loser, not you.
2006-08-09 21:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by tomnjerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. Unless it's really important. I say forget most of it.
Because it's just going to possibly make him jealous or
he's liable to bring it up in the future. -- Just say you
two went your seperate ways. It just didn't work out
& you learned a lot from it.
Guys don't really want to hear that much about your
ex-boyfriend. The only thing they want to hear about
your ex is that he had a tiny weenie wiener.
2006-08-09 21:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel the need? If it's something that's relevant, or something that bothers you, then talk to him. There's nothing wrong with being honest. But if you're just trying to make conversation find something else to talk about.
2006-08-09 21:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only when he ask you then you tell him, if not I dont see the point of you mentioning to him about your EX. Cos' the truth is you wont like it, if he talks about his Ex g/f to you.
2006-08-09 21:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Hotlips_G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“One reason God created time was so that there would be a place to bury the failures of the past.”
Only if your asked.
2006-08-09 21:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by JReb_67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking about your past is alright...it's helped mold you into the person you are...I wouldn't tell him about the sex aspect of it though...some guy's can handle hearing about it...others can't...
2006-08-09 21:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, at a certain time, i think you should be open. sometimes it is best to let these things out gradually, over time.
2006-08-09 21:06:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋