Is there that one person out there that is for u and u only? Ive met a guy, we have not known each other long, but we have fallen for each other so fast, and really believe there is something there, but there is a considerable age difference? Should that matter, or should we just be happy and try make it work?
2006-08-09 20:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by ange 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well then what do u beleive is too much or an age gap?
2006-08-09 20:59:26 · update #1
i know i have my soulmate, if you believe you found yours go for it
2006-08-09 20:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you haven't known this guy long and you want to know if he is the one ?
Weellllll...believe me when the right guy comes along ,you will know it.
But..If you hav e to ask the question"Is he the right one?" Than the answer is:
no!!!! You already doubting your feelings or you wouldn't be asking for answers.Also, it sounds like you are bothered by the age differences between you'll or you wouln't be asking for answers.
How old are you?How many years older is this guy that you think you have fallen for... If he is really older than you by 5 or more years ,do you think he has another girlfriend, or could he be married. If...the thought has crossed
your mind or not, I would ask him . Alot of older men ask younger gals out
tocompliment them, buy them things in order to get them to have intimate relationships with them. if ...you are having sex with this older man, I pray
you are on birth control and also using a condom to prevent STDS and AIDS
AND pregnancy....If..you didn't use a condom, goe directly to a health department that deals with HIV and be tested immediately.It will takk a series of 3 tests to let you know if you have this killing disease( you will be a number and they will tell you when to come back for your first results and when to come for your 2nd and 3rd tests,it is a long drawn out process,but worth it..
Do you have a close friend you trust with all your heart. well,ask her all these questions and if you do have to be tested ask her to go with you...also,if you
are close to your mom talk to her about all of this( if you are not close,how about a sister,school guidance counselor, an Aunt-talk to them, they will keep the secret) Good- luck
2006-08-10 04:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by FELINELOVER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these thoughts are common between any pair who have fallen for each other.Be sober, think about the matter seriously and decide. Age may not be a barrier for love but may be for life!!!
2006-08-10 03:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy you found one as it could be very difficult these days. try to make it work, the age difference included. enjoy each other's company, feel the love, give it generously and unconditionally, they say love and love until it hurts, and if you can sustain that for the longest time, you're the most fortunate person on earth to touch and be touched by another human being you may claim as your soul mate.
2006-08-10 03:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by maiax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you? Follow that. I can't say ignore the outside world, because sometimes there's a reason why people say what they do, but you should always focus on what you feel and understand that your feelings and instincts are very important. If you are really happy with this guy, you should try and make it work. I wish you luck and happiness!
2006-08-10 03:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no such thing as a soul mate, you just have a fixed spiritual capacity and everyone else does also and basically a sucessful marriage is based on compatibility and spiritual fortitude.
2006-08-10 03:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 and legal is good and it should only matter to you. If you both want it to work then go for it.
2006-08-10 03:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by wildfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the question?
2006-08-10 03:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make it work by studying up on relationships.
2006-08-10 03:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋