I'm not complaining, I'm just asking.
2006-08-09 20:35:34 · 22 answers · asked by Deep Thought 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I don't say all women do that, but the majority of the women I know do that.
BUT NICE DOESN'T MEAN BORING!!! I mean you can still have fun with someone if they don't tell you to eat **** and die when you ask them for a light.
2006-08-09 20:47:28 · update #1
Well, dark0wn3r, I care since I asked the question. I'm not seeking relationship advice here, I'm just curious.
2006-08-10 05:11:18 · update #2
i find this generally true..
then they complain why the guys are such jerks.
2006-08-09 20:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hobo_Hippie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's because women (not me) don't trust themselves to be okay if it doesn't work out with a nice guy. If they are with a jerk and it doesn't work they can say, "He was a jerk anyway!" If they are with a nice guy they can't use lines like that to assist them in dealing with the pain of loss. So....they continue to go after the guys that aren't as hard to let go of.
It's sad....if only they could trust themselves enough....
2006-08-10 10:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My relationship resume includes both jerks and nice guys. Some jerks can be a lot of fun until you scratch below the surface and some nice guys can be a pain until you realize their honesty. Personally, my favorite for 30 years is a nice guy that I have more fun with I probably should.
2006-08-10 03:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by HisChamp1 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girls prefer jerks. Women prefer nice guys.
To get both, be a nice guy with a backbone. Give her flowers and make stuff for her but don't be afraid to tell her the truth and if she acts like a *****, don't be afraid to stand up to her and tell her the ugly truth. Women appreciate men that could stand up for themselves.
2006-08-10 10:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by enigma_frozen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not exactly easy to answer that question because the majority of women complain that men always choose those slutty whores who agree to anything rather than the girls that have more respect for themselves. I suppose the solution is to let the jerks and sluts get together then the nice guys and girls will be able to find one another.
2006-08-10 03:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by missamerino 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I guess sometimes we want to be kinda put in place, but trust me this only lasts so long. And many times we think that is as good as we can get. But the nice guys are always the hottest, we just feel that we are too good of "friends" for them.
2006-08-10 03:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by tdm511 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
women typically go for that exiting bad boy image and ignore the nice safe good guy because he is perceived as boring and average, vs. exciting and unique. Ironically, it usually turns out that the good boring guy is the more interesting of the two.
2006-08-10 03:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by rcsanandreas 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most guys are jerks to other guys, but nice to the ladies. They're obliviously the attention- seekers.
2006-08-10 06:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a lot of jerks before I must my future husband and trust me he is definitely a nice guy.... I think the attraction with jerks and bad boys is the thrill of adventure and the challenge of changing him into a nice guy...
2006-08-10 04:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Pie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not all women do. Most of them arent planning to have a long relationship with the jerk.
;D
2006-08-10 03:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
A good friend of mine that's a girl told me that it's because its scary to think that a relationship might actually work out.
2006-08-10 03:40:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋