My Boyfriend and I moved into together about 3 months ago. Everything is still great, Im just not understanding one thing ok maybe 2 things...1) I ALWAYS have to initiate sex with him. How can i get him to start? 2) Im a very sexual person and like sex as much as oral sex and I can only get him to do it every once in awhile. He says he loves to do it but still doesnt do it more? Any ideas on that one?
2006-08-09 20:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk about it. Try respecting his opinion. But should it continue as before, reconsider and find someone who meets you emotionally/sexually.
2006-08-09 20:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by tomnjerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pose your initiations differently. say something out of the ordinary that grabs attention on the subject. reverse it a little. I tried this: out of the blue, on our way out the door of a friends party, I whispered " Just the mere thought of your d--k in my mouth is driving me crazy" No one heard me, but him and I swear, I have never been rushed out the door faster! Sometimes doing something naughty out in public gets the pizzaz back as well!
2006-08-10 04:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by prancingmonkey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
There is no real way to get him to do it , without some type of enticement/reward for doing it. Either way, he may fall back on his ways as before.
2006-08-10 03:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
get some relationship training. there are definite skills and methods to get your partner to be responsive to your wishes and interests. it's relatively easy to have good cooperation with relationship skills that are a little to much to go into here.
2006-08-10 04:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to be more sexy in front of him. Wear loose clothes with no bra, short shorts with no panties. Sit with legs open some where he can see. Anything sexy. Hold off on going to him. Let him come to you. He just waits for you to come. Habit
2006-08-10 03:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by sandman 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well you have two options... Try to change him. Which you may not be able to. Number two.. Find that man that is compatiable because your not going to be happy otherwise
2006-08-10 03:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him...
sometimes men simply have a lower libido and that is the way they are made.
Sometimes circumstances can affect their libido some things that may affect a man's libido are:
drugs or alcohol can lower libido
fear and worry
tiredness
uncertainty
you need to talk to him....
2006-08-10 03:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Any guy thats not into sex, especially is you are wanting it that much has too be gay. Take it from a guy. There is something wrong with him. You should get out now before you are dumped for a guy.
2006-08-10 03:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Michael W 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Just tell him you want it more. Most of us are always willing to do it more.
2006-08-10 03:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
get some of those enhancing pills and desolve it in his drink just before you go to sleep, and when he's getting ready to sleep suck his dick then sit on his face
2006-08-10 05:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋