how can i find that my husband has an affair with his secretory?

Question

the staff of his office said so and he hide everything of her.and i found one SMS sent by that girl-i am sorry u r sick because of me.what is this please tell me

Answer 1

"how can I find that my husband has an affair with his secretary?"
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1. The fact that you do suspect it is a sign that something might possibly (I said MIGHT POSSIBLY) be going on.

2. There are always signs of when a person is cheating on another person. Some of the signs are that they are spending more and more time away from their spouse. They are spending more and more time with someone else. they are making excuses saying they can't come here or go there and yet they always have time for "other ' people.

3. Directly confront him and ask him to be honest . have this conversation privately.

4. Just wait, be patient, be yourself and time will tell. ALL cheaters get found out eventually, so if he is cheating on you, it will come out soon, when you least expect it.

5. I f you choose to do so you can hire a private detective, only when a person reaches the point where they think they need a private detective, then the relationship is doomed already.


6. Show up at his office for lunch with him. Don't let him off the hook. MAKE yourself visible to the affair lady. He could be tellingher that he doesn't love you and doesn't spend time with you. So when you keep showing up for lunch or after work, then he will get caught in his lies to her . Keep doing it. If you find that he is refusing to have lunch with you and refusing to meet you after work, then you can pretty much figure out that he is up to no good.

7. Send him little notes at the office like. "ahhh Honey, last night was wonderful! Send him flowers at the office, with a short love note. See what his reaction to this is . AN innocent husband will be flattered and happy about this. BUT a guilty husband will react differently.

Pray.

Prayer changes things and prayer works. (yes, you might not get what you want at this time, but prayer always works) .

Have a great peaceful day and a nice lunch with y our innocent husband.

Answer 2

Asking doesn't always work because they can lie till the cows come home and you would still not know the truth. Ask a friend that he hasn't met to spy on him during work or spy on him yourself. Show up at unexpected hours during the day, either yourself or in disguise. If you have your own car, park somewhere where he can't see you and follow him after work to see where he goes or who he goes with. If you don't have a car, rent one (even better) and take a camera with you. Send her a msg on your hubby's phone and watch her response.
P.S. I wouldn't jump into conclusions right away if I were you. That msg that you saw could mean nothing. Maybe his co-workers are trying to ruin him by saying he's having an affair. Who knows? Bottom line is: You have to have hard evidence or proof that he's cheating before you accuse him of such. Besides, if he is cheating on you and you go to divorce court, you will need all this evidence anyway. Better start collecting them.

Answer 3

You would probably have to hire a detective to find out for sure. The SMS could be nothing, however. If she went to work with a bad head cold and he caught it, she could say that, since she works closely with him.
Honestly, men have affairs with coworkers where I work all the time. If their spouses just sat in our parking lot at lunchtime and watched to see who left together, and where they went, they would learn a great deal.
Some of these people are even fooling around in the conference rooms and stair wells. So, his staff may very well know what's going on.

Answer 4

or you could ask him or be bold and ask the secretary. What's with all this sneaking stuff...c'mon people. Doesn't honesty exist anymore? Oh who am I kidding...hire somebody or get one of your girlfriends to help set up a plan, or call that show cheaters...if they pick your case you won't have to pay. I'm almost ashamed to be a female, were so cunning. Ok not really. Good luck and if the baztard is cheating you go out there and have yourself a orgy!

Answer 5

Sad to hear that..i hope i can help..erm...Ok here is my plan..take your husband handphone and sent sms to the girl...say that you want to meet her at a restaurant...from there u can confront her or ask her...or maybe you can come to your husband work place and spy on him...or hire a private investigater..

Answer 6

Buy a small surveillance camera and plant it in his office somewhere. If you can sneak in after hours great...otherwise get a private detective to follow him for a few days and then you will know.

Answer 7

i'd not betray his believe, regardless if there become reason behind suspicion. even if he become dishonest, i can't decrease myself to pass in the back of his back and sneak round attempting to confirm. i do not opt to understand both. If we seem for hardship we will discover it. as well, He has to pay the piper sometime, same as all of us will. i wager what i do not comprehend, received't damage me!

Answer 8

It means you need to go to the clinic and get your self checked out. God is trying to tell you something right now

Answer 9

i would dress up as a granny and go to his work and spy on him.or get one of your friends he hasnt met to investigate for you.or
if you can get your hands on his phone again send her a msg n see what she answers back.

Answer 10

that sms doesnt mean any thing, do not come to any conclusion from that, talk to your hubby first, before you kill yourself with that kind of doubt