My wife has delivered a baby girl recently. I'm very active in sex and don't like to use comdoms whlie having sex. It gives me a feeling as if some thing or someone is between me and my partner and dosint give me full satisfaction. At the same time iwould like to give some gap inbetween the next child. SO HOW CAN I HAVE SEX WITH MY WIFE WITHOUT USING CONDOMS AND ALSO WITHOUT THE RISK OF HER GETTING PREGNANT AGAIN????? Kindly help..... genuine helping answers please...
2006-08-09 20:25:16 · 17 answers · asked by long m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Birth Control is just that control it is not birth prevention. What every other reader on here failed to say is that despite the fact that most birth control devices give you as high as 99% pregnancy protection there are still chances you can become pregnant while on them. The only sure way to prevent pregnancy is not to have sex.
Having said that, if I was to put money on a control device I would use a diaphragm. It gives you protection, and doesn't make the experience feel false.
2006-08-09 20:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Generally the woman cannot have sex for 6 weeks after birth anyway because she should be consisently having her period for those 6 weeks. After that, it is not recommended to have sex for a while due to hormonal changes and things like that. If you have to, consider alternatives to penetration or convince her to try alternative methods of Birth Control. The patch and the new pill that have come out recently onto the market have been shown to be really effective and have actually been proving in some studies to be more effective than the regular pill.
2006-08-09 20:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by Matt R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife can start on oral contraceptive pills that don't contain estrogen. These are sometimes referred to as "mini-pills." The estrogen can reduce the quality and the quantity of breast milk. I hope you are breast feeding your new baby girl. Formula should be used in addition to breast feeding and not as a replacement. Also you can consider an intrauterine device (IUD). These can be placed in the uterus 4-6 weeks after delivery and left in place for 5-10 years depending on the type. And fertility is normally restored within one year after its removal, in case you wanted to have more kids. If you are done having kids then you can considered tubal ligation or a vasectomy. Vasectomy have the best chance of being reversed in comparison to tubal ligation (having your tubes tied).
2006-08-09 20:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jitsen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are condoms for women. I guess it goes in her snatch. There is also birth control. If you have the money, then you can buy the morning after pill, which is a form of birth control but it is designed to be used only for emergencies.
2006-08-09 20:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Works, It's what my husband and I used.
You can call your local Catholic Church ands ask when they have the nes Natural Family planning classes.
http://www.envoymagazine.com/familyplanning.htm
“The Catholic Church’s teachings on family planning are logical, consistent and wonderfully liberating when properly understood, yet they are rejected by the overwhelming majority of Catholics ...”
Answering Four Common Objections
About Contraception and Natural Family Planning
By Sarah F. Peterson
Openness to life will strengthen and sanctify your marriage. Contraception will weaken and endanger it.
http://www.highbeam.com/doc/1G1:76471880/Reason+and+religion+in+natural+family+planning.html?refid=ency_botnm
Reason and religion in natural family planning.
God Bless You, ;-)
2006-08-09 20:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off u should get over the condom thing and use them try all types of condoms until u find the one u like 2nd you should use birth control there are all types of birth control methods
2006-08-09 20:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her doctor there are many options for birth control, also type in birth control options in a search engine
2006-08-09 20:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is birth control pills and hope they work. Otherwise wrap it up and get over it until your ready to have another one.
2006-08-13 17:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by ashleymama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your wife use birth control pills
2006-08-09 20:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Da man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth control pills.
I'm sure you could ask your teachers for additional help as well when school starts up again.
2006-08-09 20:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋