i have a boy friend who is in the military , well we met online we r on online dating , i guess it sounds like strange love .. but we r seriouse for sure , but there was a little thing or biger for me maybe .. i had to make another id for testing him , because i've never met him in person yet . but we will soon . so i talked to him with the id (not mine, he never know ) i acted like another girl and said him i like him, wanna be friend with .. he asked do i know him? .. of course i can't say that i know .. but i just said i want to be friend . and i said also i wanna meet him in person ..lol
he said .. he wanna hang out with me .. oh my god .. he wants to meet the other girl ... i was jealouse it ,
i thought it's hard to handle online date.. can't trust easy ....
2006-08-09 20:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Well, he can't trust you, either. I mean, you have now lied to him, and been false with him. Why should he trust you?
Fact is, you will not be able to trust and truly love one another until you meet live, face-to-face and whatever-to-whatever.
On-line dating is hazardous at best. You need to assume the worst, because you will find it often enough that such an assumption is justified. At the same time, you need to reach out, or the whole point of on-line dating would be lost. So reach out gently, carefully, and don't rely too heavily on anything that a person who has the anonymity of a computer keyboard says. Even a photo: who knows if it is his or a friend of his, or even a total stranger?
Still, personality does show through the way a person words things, the topics he is interested in discussing, and so forth. Why not just count friends, not lovers, until you get the opportunity to meet -- and meet in a public place at first, for all the obvious reasons.
2006-08-09 20:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have not even set eyes on this man how can you say that y'all are in a serious relationship. You know nothing about his mentality, his hygienic habits or his HIV status.
You don't even know if he truly is in the military.
What parameters were set regarding your relationship?
Did he promise not to communicate with other females?
You met him on line. Why do you think he would discontinue meeting people on line?
I think he knows that the other identity was affiliated with you.
why did he ask you(while under the other identity) if you knew him?
Meeting people on line is not a crime.
He is not your husband so he is free to talk or meet with whomever he selects.
2006-08-09 20:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by nubianbx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well he may just wanna **** whoever he can it's hard to say. I do have to say though that if you aren't comfortable trusting the person you're with then a long distance relationship wont work. Trust me I know this from experience.
2006-08-09 20:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to trust someone in a regular relationship, let alone on online dating. Find someone better, my advice.
2006-08-09 20:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online dating is probably the most stupid thing ever, its nowhere near to a real relationship and you should kill yourself for asking such a stupid question. Do you realize how ridiculous that was?
2006-08-09 20:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YUP SAME HERE.SURELY U CANT TRUST HIM TILL U MEET HIM IN PERSON.
2006-08-09 20:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by sonu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty low of you. Also he probably knew it was you because you type like a mentally challenged goat.
2006-08-09 20:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋