can i be both bi and christain?

Question

okay i tried to not be bi and still am trying but it dosent work well so i decided to stay bi but not engage in any sctivity or try too so can i still be a christain and not go to hell or be bad

Answer 1

10 points to Levi!

I am a gay Christian and yes you can be bi and be a Christian. See, scientist have proven that your sexuality is in your genetic make up. It is not a decision you made, our GOD made you the way you are and if you are a child of God then yes, then GOd made you PERFECT without flaw just the way you are. God Bless you and keep you safe and strong...

...IN HIS LOVE

Answer 2

If you are Bi you are Bi, there's no changing that. Question is can you also be a Christian? Well, there are some who'll quote Leviticus and St Paul to say not. The truth is, God (if He exists) will decide. If you lead a life that is courteous to others and determine to show love in all that you do - I don't think God will punish you for being attracted to both men and women. I seriously doubt He'll punish you for acting on that attraction, either.

But heck, I'm only a mortal like everyone else here...what do I know?

Answer 3

Why would you want to be a Christian when all they do is judge people, point their fingers at others, put their noses into other people's bedrooms, pick and choose what parts of the bible pertain to their selfishness and consistently tell you that you're going to hell?

If you're not Conservative, Christian and Straight, you're no good.

Christians will torment you, judge you, gossip about you and cause emotional harm to you. They will tell you they love you, but hate your sin....like they're on some pedastal and have the inherent right to be in your business.

You can't make a decision to be bi, straight or gay.
You are what you are and that's all there is to it.

Go ahead....remain celibate and be Christian.
When you die, you'll kick yourself in the @ss when you find out that God gave you your sexuality and you didn't use it because you were too afraid to.

Answer 4

if you are bi, you are gay.
there is no such thing as bi.
This is not a slam on you, or anyone else confused into thinking they are bi.
Bi is a fabrication of simple minds, to justify a lifestyle that is not specifically covered in religious circles.
But the reality of it is, if you are bi, then you are gay. There's no part-time gay thing here... If you are a man and you are with another man sexually, then you are gay. It does not matter if you also like women, you're gay. Likewise for women.

To answer your question then, sure, you can be Christian. Who am I to judge you? As a Christian, I would hope that you would see what you are doing is a sin in the eyes of God, but I sin everyday. A sin is a sin, right? If I found a wallet and kept it and its contents, I'm a sinner, just like the murder sitting on death row, just like the politician sleeping in the White House, and just like gay people everywhere.
I sleep well at night knowing that I am a sinner, and that God still loves me. There's a good chance he still loves you too. :)

Answer 5

There seems to be alot of be yourself, if they don't accept you for who you are, they follow only certain rules. When the main issue is can you be Bi and a Christian? The answer is NO. It is very clear in the Bible. Since this comes down to being a Christian you have to turn to the Bible, and not let acceptable social standards get in the way.

Answer 6

The way my ultra-Christian grandmother put it to me this: You can be gay/lesbian/bi, etc... as long as you don't act on it, as she and others in her church believed that you were born that way, but you still have the power to act or not to act on your desires. But don't forget - everyone sins, and no sin, says the bible, is greater than any other, like lying or cheating or stealing, any of which can and will be forgiven if you are sincere in asking forgiveness, and you're trying your best to be a good Christian.

Now, I'm not Christian anymore, and this whole issue is one of the reasons for it, but this is how it's been explained to me and how I've interpreted the Bible.

Answer 7

you can be whatever you want. Being bi does not make your beliefs and different than they would be if you were straight. don't let anyone else define what you believe, that is a personal choice. so choose to be yourself spiritually and not be held back by organized religion. you have discovered that you are bi. discover you own spirituality. there is no such thing as heaven or hell, that is something that human church leaders long ago made up to control people.

blessed be.

Answer 8

Definitely. The most important thing is that you believe in Jesus Christ and that he died on the cross for you. You WILL enter heaven and be part of God's family.(John 3:16). Being bi isn't a sin because you are born that way and can't help it. Acting on it is a sin. I think that gay/bi/lezbo sins are no different from lying or stealing something. You will be forgiven when you ask for forgiveness. God bless!

Answer 9

I believe that people have to follow their conscience. That's God's way of talking to us. It may be right for some people and wrong for others. I personally don't think our sexual preferences have anything to do with how God will judge us, not since Jesus came and saved us (all). To thine own self be true. God made you and wants you to be the best you that you can be whatever that means to you. If you're not hurting anyone else, more power to you. This is from a heterosexual Christian.

Answer 10

God made you for what you are. You are His instrument. I am a bisexual Christian and just live life and spread love to strangers and friends alike.

I am a non-denominational Christian but I go to UCC services. I engage in meeting and making friends with people. There are community meals I go to and help serve homeless people meals. I know I'm not perfect, but I'm sure God sees my good and bad, and no matter what He will always love me.