I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I AM 15. MY BOYFRIEND HOWEVER LIVES ABOUT 30 ,MINUTES AWAY. I HARLY EVER SEE HIM ONLY LIKE ONCE A MONTH.THINGS ARE GOING GOOD SO FAR. BEFORE WE GOT TOGETHER WE TALKED FOR LIKE 5 MONTHS EVERY DAY , AND AFTER THAT HE STARTED ACTING LIKE A BOYFRIEND.AFTER MY DAD LET US GO OUT ON OUR FIRST DATE HE ASKED ME OUT. BUT LATELY WHEN I CALL HIM YUP HIS EITHER BUSY WITH HOMEWORK OR HIS AT FOOTBALL PRACTICE AT SCHOOL. WE HARLY SPEAK NOW AND WE ONLY TALK ON THE WEEKENDS???WHAT SHOULD I DO??...AND OH YEAH I DID I FORGET TO MENTION THAT HE LOVES ME.??...WELL YEAH..WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK??
2006-08-09 18:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by gorJESS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they seldom work and are difficult to maintain.
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2006-08-14 01:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it is best to just keep up what you are doing and hope for the best.. long distance never works well.. give him the benefit though school and football is alot of work. as you are 15 just picture all ur homework and a extra activity afterwords. You said that he loves you... but do you love him?
He is only 30 minutes away.. just think if ur relationship lasts til one of you get a license and a car then you will have it made in the shade..lol
2006-08-10 02:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by ~Mrs.C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably busy with his extracurricular sports. That takes a lot out of his free time. Ask if you can go to any of his games-
take a girlfriend or your brother.
Looking back, it boggles my mind to think that 30 miles away
was as good as 300 when you don't have a car. He will be getting
his license soon. Keep the relationship going. He said he loves you. Send him a cute card- keep talking on the phone.
Long distance relationships are not as easy to keep going as
short distance ones, but don't write it off. Have fun while you can.
You guys might actually have something neat going on.
2006-08-10 01:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships do work but only if both sides are really into it and willing to put the effort in. I had a long distance relationship with my boyfriend (who is now my husband!). We lived on opposite sides of the world. If he really loves you, then he should make time for you. If you feel that hes avoiding you, then confront him and ask him outright if he still wants to be with you. After all you are only 15 and you need to be out having fun, not stressing about some guy!
2006-08-10 01:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by lounursey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally at the age of 15 this is the best kind of relationship for you. At this stage in your life you do not need to be serious or in love with anyone. Try to focus on your studies more...after all 18 is just around the corner. Are you preparing yourself?
2006-08-10 01:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does work, but from what you described, it is either he is really busy or he is trying to avoid you. Long distance relationships is easy to get, but is hard to maintain. You will never know what the person is doing behind your back. You should meet him someday and ask him to tell you the truth. Its better to get things sort out than to drag things on.
2006-08-10 01:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by lx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha HA HA!! Long distance relationship!! 30 minutes? Come on! You kids nowadays just crack me up!! Your too young to date, That's your only problem!! Wait a few years, just enjoy your youth! You don't need this drama at your age!
2006-08-10 02:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is no long distance relationship. Try giving him a little surprise like making your way down to visit him. ^.~ Surprises adds a little spice to relationship. Maybe he is really busy, so it's up to you to make it work. A relationship is both ways. Don't always expect him to be the one to give.
2006-08-10 01:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tsu-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound good.
You can still give that relationship a try.
Open your horizons, do mix around with others.
Remember, you are still young, no need to rush.
2006-08-10 02:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by feel good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't get too caught up in it, put 30 mins isn't too bad, so go for it.
2006-08-10 01:54:46 · answer #11 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋