My best friend and me are both 20 and decided to enter this local beauty contest at a bar- they throw it every week on Friday nights. We both got dressed up- she wore your average low cut blouse with matching skirt and looked normal for a skinny white girl. Since Im large- I am about 300 lbs- I decided to wear a full ball gown, so I bought this brown and orange flower dress at a thrift store. At the bar, no one voted for me but most voted for my friend! I was so jealous because its not fair Im not skinny! So I grabbed a small bucket of paint the workers were using on the bar and threw it on my best friend's skirt and ruined it! She screamed and cried, and everyone called me fat names. I dont care- its not fair she won that beauty contest so I had to ruin her dress and yea, it did cost hundreds. But so what? But now I feel a bit guilty - how can I get her to forgive me?
2006-08-09 18:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by mrs sunshine 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
LET YOUR MOM THROW A PARTY AGAIN AND YOU COULD EAT ALL THE FOOD BEFORE THE GUESTS ARRIVE, LIKE THE LAST TIME. BUT MAKE SURE YOU WAIT FOR GRANDMA BEFORE YOU EAT THE CAKE, SO YOU CAN GOBBLE IT DOWN...WHOLE, WITH YOUR FAT FINGERS, RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER! SO THEN YOU DONT HAVE TO ARGUE ABOUT ANY PIECE THAT IS LEFT! EAT UP ENJOY!! (HEY ANSWERER'S, ANOTHER DRAMA QUEEN!, GO READ HER BIO)
2006-08-10 08:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That was a really messed up thing to do. You shouldn't let your envy get in the way of your friendship with this person. Does she treat you like this? Put yourself in her shoes. Its not her fault that she won the contest. Your upset because you weigh a certain number but is that her fault? No, its not. That is YOUR fault. You think its not fair that you are skinny? Get off your behind and work out then and stop treating your friends like crap. Don't treat others with disrespect because the way you feel about yourself. The way you treat people will come back and haunt you. Buy her a new skirt, apologize and admit to her that the reason why you did that was because of jealousy. Learn to stop being jealous of others and accept yourself for who you and if you aren't happy with who you are then change yourself. Everyone gets jealous of others at least one time or another but you shouldn't be jealous of your friends. I once went to a club and some guy told my friend that she was prettier than me. He said this to my face too and it didn't bother me at all. I smiled and said I know and gave her a hug. It didn't bother me at all because I care for her and if someone compliments her then I can see why because she is my friend and I don't compete with friends.
2006-08-10 02:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel a bit guilty? That was a horrible thing to do. I don't think you realize the underlying problem in this situation. You cannot get mad at others for your shortcommings. You obviously know you are overweight and you decided to enter a beauty pagent. What did you think was going to happen? Maybe you should learn to be happy with yourself, then you wouldn't be so angry at your friend for being thin. In my opinion she shouldn't forgive you. You did an awful thing and don't really feel bad about it. You sound like you miss your friend, but you still feel victimized...this is far from the real case. Your friend was a victim of you.
2006-08-10 01:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by ecogrl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EAT SOME MORE BROWNIES!! AND SIT ON YOUR MOMS BROKEN CHAIR WHICH COST 100,000 !
IT MUST TAKE YOU ALL DAY TO MAKE UP STORIES !!!
CAN YOU COME UP WITH AN ORIGINAL STORY!!
LIKE YOU LOST YOUR WEIGHT YOU THREW ALL THE COOKIES OUT AND BOUGHT NEW FURNITURE'S SO YOU CAN SIT YOUR THIN BUM ON IT AND NOW EVERYBODY IS JEALOUS OF YOU ETC ETC ETC! YOU ARE SOooo SLIM 100 pounds THE SIGHT OF COOKIE CRUMBS MAKES YOU GAG!!! THEN YOU ENTERED A FAT COMPETITION AND YOU LOST BECAUSE YOU ARE SKINNY........... YOU GOT SO ANGRY YOU CALLED ALL THE FAT PEOPLE NAMES THEY THREW COOKIES AT YOU NOW YOU ARE WONDERING IF YOUR FAT FRIEND WILL FORGIVE YOU! THEY CALL YOU ALL SORTS OF NASTY SKINNY NAMES!!! TOOTHPICK!
IN FACT THEY TRIED TO FORCE YOU TO EAT BROWNIES!
2006-08-10 11:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by +++++ SPOOK ++++ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her for forgiveness and pay her for the skirt that u ruined. and u shouldnt have done that. control ur jealousy and if u want to get skinnier then get workin go to the gym and eat less go see a doctor to help you
2006-08-10 01:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read this person's other questions, this is totally a troll to make fun fo the fatties.
2006-08-10 02:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a new dress and do chores for her for a week.
2006-08-10 01:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by moneyman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty messed up what you did, she's your friend. I don't know what you can do I guess just talk to her and tell her you sorry.
2006-08-10 01:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by -мari♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to realize why you threw the paint on your friend. (jealousy) but what are you gonna do to not be jealous any more? and last but not least if she's your friend and your really sorry apologize like crazy.. ? i dunno
2006-08-10 01:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Hmm... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a terible thing you did to your friend. If I were her I wouldn't forgive you.
2006-08-10 01:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by The_Answer_Man™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋