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has anyone got pregnant will you were on birth control and is there any sites that i can show my boyfriend that it does happen cuz he think that i was lieing about takin he think i got pregnant to trap him

2006-08-09 18:41:00 · 21 answers · asked by lins 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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Hey there mister......it really can happen,especially if you werent using another form of birth control...LIKE A CONDOM...its not all our responsibility you know.....it takes 2 to tango!!!! Birth control isnt 100% effective and even if your taking them everyday, if your not taking them at the same time everyday..you could be putting yourself at risk.
I am not a pill taker myself but when I got pregnant I know for a fact that I was taking my pills everyday, not at the same time, but i took them everyday. I got pregnant on birth control...it does happen, and we werent using condoms for backup, just my birth control.
And you mister...dont be blaming her, its your fault too,even IF she missed 1 day it could totally effect the way it works, and sorry but no one is perfect, we all make mistakes. My sons father made the mistake of blaming me for getting pregnant (trust me i wasnt trying to TRAP HIM...what a joke), anyway, he stressed me out my whole pregnancy about me getting pregnant, and about how much money its gonna cost him...blah,blah,whine,whine...thats all i heard, well because of that...he got the boot 2 weeks after my son was born,the night he complained about me asking him to get up and feed the baby a bottle because i was too tired to breast feed...the first and ONLY time I asked him to actually get up with our son, he got pissed and bitched....its okay for us to get up 7times a night though..? He got the boot that night....I suggest he starts treating you like the queen you are right now and through the rest of your lives, you are carrying his child,his blood,something you two made TOGETHER...it wasnt just you, you will be going through the worst pain you will ever feel in your entire life during labor and pregnancy is no walk in the park either..you will be sick, your baby will not let you eat some foods sometimes (you'll get sick), you will have a person inside of you using you as a punching bag and there is nothing you can do about it, you will have the wind knocked out of you countless times when it decides to sock you in the lungs, things will get bigger on your body and there will be things you will no longer be able to see..lol.
He needs to wake up and smell the coffee....decide now wether or not you want to be together or not...being together is not always whats good for the baby..especially if your not getting along, it will be a hard long road, but there are programs out there to help and trust me you'll be able to get through this just fine...i did it by myself getting paid 9.50 an hour (at the time) and living on my own...sure i needed help...formula,diapers,wipes,clothes...ect...you will find new things that you need everyday after your child is born.
And mister...dont stress her out, its only going to hurt YOU'RE BABY, her, then she'll hurt you for it. Dont tease her about things that will change on her body...nothing.My sons father teased me because i gained 50 lbs during my pregnancy and whenever I wanted to eat he'd say "you're hungry again?!" Well he got thrown out afterwards, and I dropped to 107 lbs 3 months after having my son, I have curves I've never had before and actually think I look better now than I did before....and he cant have any of it...he wants it but its his fault that he cant have it.
You guys will be on an emotional rollercoaster together until you have you're baby...it'll get better afterwards but new problems and obsticles will arise that you'll have to get through. You're baby will be the best thing in you're lives wether you think so or not right now,he or she will be the joy in you're lives and will become your reason for living...I know my boy is..and I figured that out 4 years ago TOMORROW,my baby will be 4 yrs old and I have absolutely no regrets, his father does but its his own fault...if your boyfriend decides to leave you or something he will regret it once he see's the child you've made together and there will be nothing but I love you's coming out of both of your mouths once your baby comes into this world.
Good luck and you have my prayers......have a good pregnancy ...stress free (stress on the mom can actually harm your unborn child)...and have a healthy baby....

2006-08-09 19:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0 0

If you have sex there is a chance of getting pregnant, unless you have had a total hysterectomy. That is a fact.'
If he is jumping up at this late date and saying you are lying about how you got pregnant, I would say he is scared to death of becoming a father.
Take him to the doctor with you the next appointment you have. Tell the doctor his concerns and let the doctor tell hm the statistics of women who get pregnant on birth control and never miss a pill.
He will believe the doctor. He is not going to believe a Webb site , if he doesn't believe you.
He does though, he is just scared okay.
He will be okay once the baby is here and he holds his son.
This question is asked in this category at least 20 to 30 times a day. take him back in the archives and show him all the women who have had it happen to them.
it is possible if you have sex to get pregnant each and every time. Okay.

2006-08-10 02:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hasn't happened TO ME - but I am the result of one such story. My mother had tried many, many types of birth control - got pregnant on every one of them. 15 kids to be exact.
Well, only 14 of us were created while she was on birth control - the youngest child, my mother WASN'T on birth control - and funny thing, that pregnancy took the longest to conceive. Funnier yet (or maybe not so funny, but odd) - but my mother only had one working ovary all this time, through all these pregnancies.
One ovary... and on birth control... and still my parents seemed to have been rabbits. After the last child, they weren't taking any chances with just having one of them fixed - both parents got fixed. Vasectomy and hysterectomy.

However... for the record, there are only four of us kids alive today. The others were miscarried. (5 sets of twins, 1 set of triplets and 2 single births) Perhaps, because of the birth control?

Anyway, my bf wants me on birth control - knowing my mothers story, I refuse. I've been sexually active many years without getting pregnant, I wouldn't want to INCREASE my chances by being on birth control (such as my mother). And besides that, I do not have a problem with getting pregnant at this time - meaning, it's not gonna be an issue for me or some tragic thing I'll have to deal with. If it happens, it happens - if it doesn't, it doesn't. Unfortunately, my bf does see it as sorta "tragic" because he's not ready to be a father - so I tell him, keep it in his pants if he doesn't wanna run the risk - or better yet, if it happens and he's not ready, too bad - I'm not having an abortion and he can just go off and be a deadbeat if he wants to and have nothing to do with our child.
Maybe that's harsh, but that's the reality of it. And if he truly loves me, he'll respect my view of birth control and not push it. If he does push it, he's out the door. But so far, no problem - he accepts it and we get along fine without birth control.

2006-08-10 02:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by JustMoi 2 · 0 0

Every type of birth control is not 100%. I was on the pill, but skipped here and there. I am now 27 weeks. The only true way not to get pregnant is to not have sex. If he doesn't believe you have him go with you to your next prenatal appointment and speak with the doctor.

2006-08-10 09:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 0 0

yes it happened to me my husband and I wanted 4 children altogether but wanted the last one to be a baby at home we already had 3 babies so I was on the pill I never missed taking it as I was really careful I got pregnant just the same. My daughter also got pregnant on the pill as well. it happens as the pill is only 99% coverage only one % of getting pregnant but that is enough I now have 5 but the boy is only 5 and is now my baby at home baby.

2006-08-10 01:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0 0

I got pregnant twice while on the pill. Some women's hormone levels do not respond well to traditional pills. I'm afraid I don't know of any good sites for this information, but I would recommend taking your boyfriend with you to talk to your doctor.

2006-08-10 01:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Nited1 2 · 0 0

Im raising my hand here!!!
I got pregnant while taking the birth control pills,everyday!!I did not want to be pregnant(ask anyone).I had a Urinary Tract Infection,and they gave me antibiotics to stop it.Those antibiotics cancel out your birth control pills!! Thats a medical fact!

2006-08-10 01:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sherry H 4 · 0 0

I personally didn't, but my cousin did. 4 out of her 5 kids she got pregnant while on the pill. She even used condoms as an extra precauction and she still got pregnant.

2006-08-10 01:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0 0

You don't even have to miss pills, there is a small(very small) percentage that you can still get pregnant while taking birth control.

2006-08-10 01:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I know it happens because it happen to me. I'm not sure of any websites, however, all birth control methods state that they are not 100% to prevent pregnancy or any other kind STD. And if he didn't trust you then he should have worn his own protection.

2006-08-10 03:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by KIKI 2 · 0 0

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