Why do guys like anal sex so much then get offended when you ask if they have gay tendencies?

Answer 1

For a man to enjoy anal sex, does not mean that he has gay tendencies. It's a silly notion. It makes a much sense as saying that because he enjoys fellatio, he has gay tendencies.

If you like to kiss and lick your man's nipples, does it mean that you have lesbian tendencies?

Answer 2

I definitely think that you have to be able to talk to your partner about anything and everything if it's going to work. There is always a "funny" and humorous way to broach every subject.

I'm always amazed at the number of women who just go along with whatever their partner wants sexually without even giving thought as to whether they want to or not. Does it give you pleasure? Ouch!! If a guy were to drop me because I wouldn't
do that- Good riddance.

Guys don't like it when you attack or question their manhood.
Guys probably like the fact that it's very tight and no pregnancy results. I believe that if a guy is going to do that to you, he should know how it feels first, by inserting something there on him. I
guarantee he won't like it any more than you do!!

Keep asking if they have gay tendancies! A real man won't be
threatened.

Answer 3

I think latent homosexuality has absolutely nothing to do with it. This is my theory - it's probably not what you want to hear.
The two things that make a heterosexual man want to anally penetrate a woman - scatology and sadism.
Scatology - an enduring juvenile obsession with bottoms and excrement that makes sticking your penis in them a matter of course.
Sadism - desire to inflict physical damage, pain, degradation and humiliation. Anal sex is just a compromise - anal rape is what thjey want to be doing.
So why do men get like this? And how can women convince themselves they enjoy being on the receiving end? I think it's because of childhood traumas. We're still living in an age when most people were subjected as children to forcible administration of enemas and suppositories. That's how we first learned that forcing anal penetration on a person was a way to dominate them, obtain power over them by inducing fear. In adulthood, the men subjected to this discover anal sex and - usually subconsciously - develop the desire to use it to take out their anger and pain on the nearest easy target. (They can't attack their mothers, so any attractive female will do.) Meanwhile women who actively seek anal sex do so because their enema/suppository experiences caused them to developed anal-masochistic urges.
Horrible, yes - but that's how people are.

Answer 4

That is always a good question to back men off the subject. And there is no doubt that it does have gay overtones.

Sadly, though, most of anal sex is about subjagating women and putting them in a position where they will sexually perform something that is damaging to them. There are hundreds of nonsensical "violence against women" claims in the media today - isn't it "funny" how such a serious, widespread and growing one such as anal sex is never mentioned?

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Answer 5

This is a good question that needs a good answer.First of all if a guy wants to have sex thru anal that's because he just wanted to feel the great sensation because its really tight.and if the guy asked you that means he is not satisfied with the size of her partner,I'm pertaining to a woman's partner.and i don't think that they got offended coz i myself like having sex with my partner as long as your partner agree the proposal nothing is wrong with that.

Answer 6

um where is the respect? anal is very dangerous. Being a guy i dont even like the doc to do an exam.

Answer 7

The anus is much tighter than the vagina!!!!!!!! The tighter the hole the better it feels for them. Has nothing to do with gay tendencies, but moreso with what feels good to them,

Answer 8

oh come on! you know its a tighter hole!

its tight and feels great on the penis.

it's also very visual and gets the levels of arousal very high.

anus = tight
big time ejactulation from heavy arousal

anus = feels soo good.

Answer 9

well if a man is fuking me, he's already had to deal with his gay tendencies-lol

Answer 10

I don't think so , I mean if you ask him if he is gay, then I would think so, some men like that cause its different , I guess , if you don't like it then say "exit only""