wut can i do to get my mom off my back??

Question

my mom wont let me have a boyfriend or let my friends over when nobodys there and shes like not cool with anything she keeps saying i rush into things too much and that i have a long life ahead so i shuldnt start dating yet(mostly cuz shell think ill end up pregnant)plus my dad has this stupid rule that if i go over to someones house they have to *** over b4 i can go back over!! it was all cuz this ***** who tried to put my dad in jail for 'molesting' her(he didnt) how cani get them over it and accept that im ready for all that other stuff??

Answer 1

You don't, you are the kid they are the parents you quit being a brat and start earning the trust and grown up things you want by acting more mature and responsible. Your mom is right so suck it up!

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Answer 3

Maybe you're not ready. Trust your parents a little more and rely on their judgment. They've been there you know.
Win them over with kindness and sweetness. Do little things that they will appreciate and show that you can be dependable. Be honest and sincere.

Step up and earn their respect.

This will eventually get you some of the things you want and more love and compassion from them as well. You may not realize it but these rules they have are for your benefit...and more than likely because they love you and want to protect you. That's what parents do. Openly challenging them will only make things worst and come across as you being ungrateful and proving to them that you are immature.

Answer 4

Why should they let people be over when they are not there? Would you let them invite people into your room when you were not there?

You're obviously aware that someone has already caused problems for your father - maybe you should be cautious as well.

How to get them off your back? Allow yourself to be aware of the rules and follow them to the best of your ability. When you move out, you can do whatever you want.

The home is a mini society, society has rules and you need to learn to live with them or "have the police on your back" all the time. Learn now and early that none of us lives completly freely as long as we live in civilized society.

Learn to control yourself and no one else will need to control you. Pay attention to what I'm saying, disagreeing quickly shows your mother is right, you do rush into things. You'll need to grow up before you can be treated as a grown up.

Answer 5

First of all I don't know how old you are so it's hard to answer this. Sounds like your parents care about you and that's a good thing. If you really feel you are ready to date maybe you should ask your mom if she'd feel more comfortable with group dates at first. Act responsibly by comming home before your curfew and not drinking or doing drugs and following whatever "rules" they make for you. By doing that (even though it takes the fun out of it) you will earn trust and prove you are mature enough to handle dating. As for the stupid rule...parents are just like that...I think it's just so they can get to know your friends and who you are hanging out with.

Answer 6

Honey,Your mom and dad is wright.You might not understand at first.You will when you have kids at the age of 80 years old.lol.Sweetie please slow down have fun in school while you can.It's the best way to go.About going over friends house.or haven them come over there.Talk to him do not yell at him or get made.Gust say OK.Maybe you can talk to there mom and dad.Go on from there.Good luck honey.Am not trying to down grade you because of age.Am gust letting you know how it is.

Answer 7

I wasn't allowed to date till I was 16 and I'm still alive and well. Your parents aren't going to 'get over it'. You have to continually prove that you're a responsible person.

Answer 8

They just want to protect you from unprepared pregnancy or other unnecessary hassles from others. Their way of expressing their worries may not seem pleasant to you. But, trust me, NO ONE ELSE will care for you as much as your parents do. If you do not believe me now, please at least think of what I just said here years later when you become a parent yourself.

Answer 9

sounds like a pretty mixed up family

Answer 10

Have children and then let he dote all over them