2006-08-09 18:32:07 · 34 answers · asked by Mari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
youve got to get him used to the idea of being more aggressive.. youve got to start doing things like grabbing his but playfully so he knows what you like
2006-08-09 18:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How exactly? How long have the two of you been together? If he wasn't like that in the beginning what makes you think he have that in him. Another thing, if he wasn't like that in the beginning of the relationship and knowing that is something you like how did he end up being your boyfriend? You are to like a person for who they are before they are given that title of boyfriend or girlfriend. How about you having that conversation with him, communication is the key.
2006-08-09 18:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q.:How many psychologists does it take to change a lightbulb?
A.: 1, but it has to want to change.
Show him how. Put a rope at the bottom of the pool. When he passes over it, give him a fish. Move the rope gradually higher in the water until it is 6' over the water. When he jumps out of the water and over the rope, give him a lot of fish.
2006-08-09 18:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by skydrain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what type of aggression your talking about. If you mean more aggressive in the bedroom, talk to him and tell him what is a turn on. If your talking about his personality in general compliment and reaffirm him when he does step up to the plate and does someone on the aggressive side.. let him know subtly that you like this side of him and hopefully with the reassurance he'll want to show you more of that side. Good luck.
2006-08-09 18:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aggressiveness is a personality trait. You may not be able to change him without him feeling uncomfortable. Either accept what you have, or find someone you're more compatible with or offers what you're looking for.
2006-08-09 18:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are barking up the wrong tree. some guys are tough and some are wimps. some guys get shy over doing some thing and some are confident. if you wnat to make him more aggressive though you are gonna have to boost his confidence
2006-08-09 18:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him some steroids. Then, slap him a few times. Watch what happens.
2006-08-09 18:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too shy to tell him,send him an email,or be suggestive,or rent a movie,and tell him which love scenes you like,and that you would like for him to do that.
2006-08-09 18:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah women dont know what they want, you want us aggressive then were too aggressive, come on make up your minds I'm tired of buying Tylenol.
2006-08-09 18:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by matt83840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agressive how?
To stick up for himself, in bed, or to beat you up?
2006-08-09 18:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋