2006-08-09 18:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by Bethenia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just want to know that I am not the only one who does this? If you inadvertantly do this sometimes, how do you get over that lost feeling when you remember?
2006-08-09 18:22:09 · update #1
yes and its a hard way to go.
ive had a couple of friends die unexpectedly and it takes a while to realize that you cant just call them up and talk whenever you want.
my mother is the one that i miss the most. then my dad. i lost 12 people that i cared a lot about within a year and it was the hardest year of my life.
the thing to keep in mind is when you miss them the most, talk to them inside your head. for some odd reason, it helps.
my daughter was pregnant and her boyfriend was abusing her and she didnt tell me. i dreamed of her best friend who committed suicide and he told me that he had saved the raven twice and i needed to tell her that she has to take care of the raven.
i had forgotten that his favorite poem was the raven by edgar allen poe. when i told her what i dreamed, and that he had saved the raven twice, she broke down and told me that her boyfriend had beat on her and she almost lost the baby twice.
needless to say, the baby is named raven and she is the most beautiful baby ive seen other than my own. and the boyfriend is long gone.
i will always feel that luke told me to tell her to get rid of the boyfriend before he did kill her and the baby. and she does believe it too.
the sonogram had really pointed towards a boy, but we got a healthy girl.
they can talk to you different ways.
2006-08-09 18:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mother has been gone for 8 years now and just ast week, I picked up the phone to call her and tell her something. I had not done that in a long time..
2006-08-10 01:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I pray to God for comfort and peace. Thats how I deal with the pain.
2006-08-10 01:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by sarah_live4christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats terrible. that has to be the worst feeling in the world.
2006-08-10 01:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes so dun think so much n giv ur frd load of kisses
2006-08-10 01:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by mion 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't...it's just ....time , it helps you just have to give it time I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-08-10 01:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by dancerkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-08-10 01:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋