ive been told there is no attraction to the girls in the pictures or movies, but i find it hard to beleive.
2006-08-09 18:19:42 · 31 answers · asked by aforhino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh that is such crap! Of course there is an attraction, how could you masturbate to something you did not find sexually stimulating. That is just something men say to their girlfriends to get away with watching it.
But truthfully, there is nothing wrong with it I guess, if you are a woman who is tolerable of it anyway. Men "need" sex so much more than women, that is just their genetic make-up. Porn and masturbation gives them an outlet which actually aids in keeping them in a monogamist relationship. It sounds silly but it is so. And women can get something out of porn, some women get off on it in general but also imagine the techniques your man can put into place with the aid of pornography? Consider it a learning tool, because come on, we all know men can sometimes need all the help they can get!
Did I also mention that most men are severely voyeuristic. They get a kick out of watching it. A GOOD idea to keep your man away from porn and still give him that sense of being a voyeur, make a sex tape! Just um, be sure to keep it in a safe place, and YOU keep it, do not give it to him!
2006-08-09 18:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by jennanna 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-25 08:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are just made differently from men. Guys enjoy looking at porn stars because they are programmed that way, and they get attracted to beautiful women, just as we are attracted to charming and good-looking men.
Imagine you're walking down a street. Can you honestly say that you've never even stolen a glance at a fine-looking chap across the road? Women enjoy discussing 'hotties' with their girl pals, and find nothing wrong with thinking that another guy's cute when they already have a partner. They do love their guy, but they don't think there's anything really serious about appreciating the looks of other boys as well. It's not like they'll end up with the other lad, anyway. They don't even know anything about his character.
It's the same with men.
2006-08-09 18:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a guy in a relationship likes porn, he liked porn before the relationship too (unless his wife got him into it).
But seriously, it's the same reason why people don't just buy 1 porno. The point is to see someone naked that you've never seen naked before. Because THAT'S EXCITING...
It's exciting whether you're in a relationship or not.
2006-08-09 18:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by Alexander D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Like Porn
2016-10-21 05:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No attraction to the girls in the movie? That's a lie. Would like to have a handsome like Tom Cruise when being given the choice to choose? The point is, it's just a desire to have things that we can really have in most of our reality but not in "Fantasy Land". It's sort of day dreaming as well. As long as nobody getting hurt, it's OK to have some fantasy once a while right? If you felt that it's crossed the line, you might as well make your point of view clear to your guy.
2006-08-09 18:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta cut guys slack because their brains work differently. Men happen to think about sex far more than most women, and porn supplements the limitations of the undeveloped imagination. Why should a guy concentrate that hard on a pleasing fantasy when the world would happily sell him one premade?
As for attraction, well, of course they're attracted to an extent, but pornstars are well out of reach, so what to worry about?
2006-08-09 18:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Timothy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its because of this reason. Males are very visual creatures, whereas females like the personal touch (generally). I believe that there is no physical attraction to the porn girls/guys, but they might put themselves in positions that there partner is unable or unwilling to do.
Also, they might find certain fetishes a turn on, but don't really want to paticipate in real life, but get a kick out of watching.
Don't forget, for most men just the thought of anything sexual is enough to give them sweaty palms!!!
2006-08-09 18:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know.....I don't know. Ha!!!!
My boyfriend is head over heels in love with me. I have offered a three some if it would make him happy and he declined. He doesn't even want to see me with another woman. Imagine that. He is the type of guy that I could drop off in a room filled with gorgeous naked women begging to have sex with him and he would come home to me just as faithful as he left..........I would put my life on it. Anyway, he does watch A LOT of porn. I think it is just because men can't ever get enough sex. That is my only guess.
2006-08-09 18:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh there is attraction there, I would want to see some big chested blonde bent over a rock and banged in the butt, I would like to be that guy even more. Use this thinking process when dealing with your man. Think about it
2006-08-09 18:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋