Well, I'm a 21 year old male virgin studying Film and Psychology at NYU on full scholarship - I remember learning in my Psych Class that people who aren't in (or who never had) any intimate relationships cut short their life span by about 15-20 years. Is their any way around this (besides getting a gf)? I want to live as long as I can whilst remaining a celebate virgin and it sucks to know that I'll die earlier just because I'll be a single virgin. I know that I'll never get into an intimate relationship but I'm sure that I will want to eventually have two children of my own by cloning (perhaps in 20 years)- when will the technology become available?
My choice for remaining a virgin are basically that I'm actually disgusted with the act of sex - Plus girls seem to hate me as I'm only 5'6" (passive Eugenics, lol) - and I have nothing at all in common with any girl and I'm never interested as it is. I'd rather really just hang out by myself, and become a screenwriter or composer.
2006-08-09 18:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Im not a religious person at all - Im an agnostic. Im just trying to figure out how to not deal with people who always talk and brag about all the relationships they had in the past and how they had sex in cars, mall bathrooms, and other odd spaces. I hate having this ridiculous "biological need" of having sex - especially how it strongly correlates to longevity. Any sexual urges I feel for the opposite sex I completely surpress and try not to even think about it. It can get lonely but Id rather not deal with girls and the general dumb populace of vermin who cant think at my level (my I.Q. measured at 145) - theyed probably harass me for that anyways....
-oh and my student film won 1st place at NYU Sight & Sound Film Festival.
-short girls vehimently hate short guys - they dont want short kids!! Its Eugenics in action! People like me dont get to pass their genes onto the next generation because people like me are subconsciously looked at as a subhuman - subjectively of course.
2006-08-09 19:52:22 · update #1
From what I've heard, not having sex makes you look younger and more energetic.
My advice for staying a virgin...stay away from porn and erotica
2006-08-09 18:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by soldierpoet6840 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nonsense! There's always someone out there for you. Sounds like you're just tired of trying to find her. Besides, disgusted with sex? It's one of the most beautiful parts of life and you're disgusted with it. Humans need intimate experiences, it's healthy for us.
You have some strange needs my friend, but it's your choice. My guess is that there isn't any way around the whole "15-20 year" deal, it's just that everyone's different. Some people live full, happy lives alone (to a certain degree), others develop depression or etc. and die earlier.
2006-08-10 01:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by jk_2k8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a religious type. You realize what you are saying is not the "norm". Maybe in your sub-conscious you want to be a priest, or is that out of the question. My guess is that you had some experience many years ago that has turned you off from women. Did you ever had a girlfriend in school ? Did you kiss her, or her you. Did you ever go out to eat with a female friend? Are you just plained scared? They will not bite. You can go to India and find many females just like you. I am talking with one now that is a virgin. I don't know if it is forbidden until marriage but never thinks about it which is hard to believe. Puberty..What happened during that time? Also when you go out with a lady friend thaere is nothing wrong with not having sex. If you go with her over a period of time and she happens to ask you why haven't you wanted to have sex, just explain it to her. Good Luck
2006-08-10 02:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. first of all, people are individuals, and there is no law guaranteeing that you will die earlier if you dont have an intimate relationship. The key to a long life is reduce stress. If you dont worry about it, you wont be consumed by it. By the way, forget the cloning thing. Humans will never be cloned, even in todays corrupt immoral world.
2006-08-10 01:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by cmil8 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make friends and develop a social life; not only will you be happier and live longer, you will have better stuff to write movies and music about. If girls seem to avoid you because you're relatively short -- not a problem imo -- consider shorter women.
Oh, and look at a variety of porn featuring men as well as women. Your disgust may be a matter of not having found something that interests you.
2006-08-10 01:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Babs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever seen the movie the 40 year old virgin? well that idea for a movie is already taken so good luck with coming up with original screenplays. good luck though. and don't stress out. stress is the reason ppl die earlier.
2006-08-10 01:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by twifu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock your self inside! Don't talk to anyone of the opposite sex, and definitely don't go to any bars to drink! Maybe you can find a girl that thinks just like you......Good Luck!LOL!
2006-08-10 01:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by 2hot2handle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to really like yourself..
2006-08-11 12:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Heather b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat healthy, and don't dwell on things, live every day and love it for what it is!
2006-08-10 01:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Stepher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a sh*tty plan.
2006-08-10 03:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋