My friend just told me she was raped by this guy she didn't even know at a party she went to a ouple of weeks ago and now she found out she's pregnant. And she said her parents will kick her out of the house bcuz they said they wouldn't support her if she ever got pregnant. She's only 15 and I'm still trying to persuade my parents [who don't know yet] to let her live with me..I need to know how I can help my friend?
2006-08-09 18:10:51 · 16 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
She should tell her parents the hole thing even that she was raped and turn the guy in they can test the baby and make for sure that is was him and press charges he needs to know that its wrong and he'll learn a lesson if she presses charges. She really needs to tell her parents!!!!!! They can HELP
2006-08-09 18:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tawny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all was your friend really raped? most girls who were will act differently, you should have noticed. But if she really was she should call her mom into her room and tell her she was raped, if it is true she will probably cry which will make her mom believe her, then she should be like and I thik I am pregnant, then tel her some crap about how she didn't want to tell anyone cause she was ashamed, but now that she thinks she is pregnant she needs help. That is what my friend did and she really was raped cause i was at the party and when she ran down the stares crying with her shirt ripped. She didn't want her parents to know so she stayed the night at my house. Then wen she told her mom she was afraid she wouldn't believe her since she didn't tell her before so she did it just like that.
2006-08-09 19:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by beachchic705 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters she should have spoken up as soon as she was raped. A pregnancy after rape is very different than an unprotected pregnancy. That's why her parents told her they'd kick her out. It's not your parents responsibility so don't get mad at your parents for not letting her live with you. She needs her parents support most of all.
2006-08-09 18:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Geneddly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing-calm down. Second her parents are going to find out sooner or later and if she was raped I would hope they give her some support. Obviously its not her fault. And eventually if she were to come live with you your parents will know too. She also needs to go file a police report to get this menace off the streets.
2006-08-09 18:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by Elisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents should support her if they know that she is raped. Plus your parents can't kick you out until you are 18 anyway. Tell her to talk to her parents. If she tells them the rape story. They should be more mad and concerned about nailing the *** hole that raped her.
2006-08-09 18:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by The_Answer_Man™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage your friend to talk to her parents. If their parents know the baby was product of a rape, they will understand. It was not your friend's fault. The solution for your friend is not running away, the solution is facing things. Or you could tell to your parents the situation and your parents talk to your friend's parents. In any case it is NECESARY your friend's parents know it right away.
2006-08-09 18:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her parent shouldnt kick her out if she was raped!!!! dat aint even right and what u should do is help her report that guy and get all the details then you should do your best to keep her calm so she doesnt kill her baby and tell your parents the situation and that if you guys dont help her out she will be livin on the streets doing who knows what and who knows where so keep calm it will work out
~mesha~ Good Luck!
2006-08-09 18:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by b3_minez_b00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend needs to tell her parents what happen to her. if she does this her parents can report this rape to the police. they will not be angry at her because of what happen to her. i know you are trying to be her friend by asking your parents to let her stay with you, but it would not be fair to your parents by taking this responsibility. your friend needs to tell her parents!
2006-08-09 18:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, did she call the police?? Does she believe in abortion? Has she considered giving the baby up for adoption??? First, Tell YOUR PARENTS!!!!! Tell her parents!!!!!!!.... call a hotline..... there has got to be a local hotline for this type of stuff...... and make sure you all try to stay calm........iS SHE PLANNING ON KEEPING THE CHILD??? If she wants to give to adoption but want to still be in it's life, have her try to get a family member to adopt it....
2006-08-09 18:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ @I_i ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear this terrible news... your friend needs help, she should speak to her parents(if it was rape then charges need to be laid against the guy.) if YOUR parents are open to discuss anything, approach them for help, or some adult you trust to help you.. I WISH I COULD HELP !!!
2006-08-09 18:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ann F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋