Well me and my ex-boyfriend had been together for about 4 months and it was going perfectly, we were both happy and the relationship strong. There was one prob though, boths parents were against us dating or even talkin for tht matter and tht made things extremely difficult. We both loved eachother and didnt want to end it but due to these tough circumstances and family feuds we felt it best to break apart. Now... its been a week and 2 days and we still like eachother a lot, i saw him recently and we couldnt help but hug and kiss because we doo still care a lot about one another. Though after tht we both were confused as to wht comes next? We had broken up and by seeing eachother and wanting to be with eachother we became somewht weirded out and dont know how to react and wht it is we are to do, Should we continue to be apart and stop tlkin altogether or should we remain as being "just" friends?
2006-08-09 18:00:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give your parents a hint and he his by making them read Romeo and Juliet. I don't really know what the feud is between your families but I do know that it can't be as important as love. Even if this may not be the boy you end up with he is important for you to find out what love means and you for him, how could anyone in their right minds deprive you of such an experience? So pull your mutual parents across the line or push them over the hump!
Best of luck to both of you. Oh and be surprisingly creative it has to open their eyes.
2006-08-09 18:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all that's the thing with parents these days always choosing who their son, or daughter should talk to. Stand up for your man you think that they care wether or not you guys want to break up don't be down because both family are fighting keep strong for him let them know that no storm or hurricane can take you away from him so if they are fighting they can continue because you guys love each other very much and it is not nice to see that they are fighting to tear you guys apart don't give up no matter what he is your you just need to keep that in your head pay attention to him and you will see whats going to happen when they see that they can't break you guys they are going to leave you alone and realize that your really in love.
2006-08-10 01:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by cute_girl_shantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a little bit of both, stay friend very close friends and work your relationship.
The main reason most parent don't like a specific person is that they think: This guy is not responsible enough for our daughter and on the other hand our Son does not deserve this. Now you both need to prove this to you parent. of course you need to work a little more than being friends because you need to prove something to both your parents.
Ask you selves these question and bring them to live to your parents.
(YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SEPARATE)
Do I have a strong character to resist the spirit of hopelessness?
When life does not go the way I planned, do I question WHO DO I QUESTION?
Do I resist to my own desire in stead of trusting God?
Do acknowledge my failure and seek forgiveness?
Do I have the strength of character that equips me with a quite confidence to stand firm in life challenges?
2006-08-10 01:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by J-M SEBA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is a tough one but not impossible....the thing is depending on how old you are, your parents really have no say in who you all date....and futher more you all care about each other...my suggestion is to sit down with your parents alone you with yours and him with his and you all explain to them that you care about each other alot and that you all want to be together. However, be respectful to your parents even if they seem to be disrespectful to your concerns and feelings. If you show respect then they will respect you more....then you just tell them that you all will continue to date and be together and your parents may still be unhappy about it but they will understand that you care for him.....if worse comes to worse then grab the Bible and pray about it. I hope this helps.
2006-08-10 01:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_live4christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys love eachother then nothing should come between that. Atleast talk to the family and let them know how you both really feel and then go from there. thats what i would do! <3
2006-08-10 01:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you guys continue to be together and you both need to talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about each other
2006-08-10 01:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by ku_3_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your parents need to grow up and get a clue. And by grow up I really mean become child like and start enjoying life again. Thats just my thoughts on it.
2006-08-10 01:08:07 · answer #7 · answered by magpiesmn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it feels like love but you cannot fall in love in 4 months. You can fall in lust, you can be very fond of someone, you can enjoy what it feels like to have someone special in your life. But not love. Be friends and see other people.
2006-08-10 01:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remain just friends until the parents die down a lil bit
then if you guys still feel the same pick it back up
but don't flaunt it.
2006-08-10 01:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..you might end your family feuds..children don't have anything to do with family feuds or anything regarding parents..you might as well talk to your parents and tell them what you really feel and that both of you are hurting because of their prides..
2006-08-10 01:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by kaye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋