Well my girlfriend broke up with me because i lied to her alot, but i chanched while she gave me another chance and she broke up with anyways, ididnt even mess up that last chgance and i dont understand.
2006-08-09 17:57:36 · 7 answers · asked by zackery b 1 in Cars & Transportation ➔ Other - Cars & Transportation
evidently when she took you back, she hadn't gotten over some of the past hurt that you had caused...sometimes ppl say one thing and mean another, kinda like when she may have said she could forgive you, she may not have been able to...If you were lying to her, you may not have proven to her that you had in fact changed...with an ex-liar its hard to tell, esp. if you were convincing her earlier when you were lying...how is she supposed to know when you are telling the truth now??
2006-08-09 18:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Yahooligan85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zackery -
The pain of a broken heart is probably something that "experts" are still trying to figure out. What I think may be important for you at this point is to learn from this former relationship and to bring what you learn to your future relationship. I am going through a rough time right now with my partner of 21 years. He thinks I am selfish in many ways when I see myself as giving. So, what I am learning to do is what I am suggesting you do here. I need to be more giving especially ot the person I love the most. I need to be more open and honest too and share not only the good times but be honest enough and giving enough ot allow him to share the bad times with me as well. Bring your new found sence of truthfulness to your next relationship.
Also, don't stop loving your former girlfriend. Just because you are not "together" does not mean that you must stop loving her. Love her enough to let go so she can find what she is seeking. Be her friend and care about her. Share with her and still be there for her when she needs you. just don't smother her give her space. If the two of you are ment to be together in a closer way again it will happen. If not you too will find someone else that you can share your heart with.
I can "hear" the hurt in your posting and hope your pain will subside quickly. May God speed your healing. Be Blessed!
2006-08-09 18:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by tri_valley_bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dirty, if someone wants you they will find a way to forgive you and keep on with the relationship. Someone else is in the picture, if you are not caught up in what you are doing, then you got plenty of time to check out the situation.
Get on patrol and find out what you want to know, Just don't find out nothing that you are not prepared to handle.
Good Luck
2006-08-09 18:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by NEWBEE1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! They make new and improved models everyday!
2006-08-09 18:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by race21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she'd like you beter if you knew how to categorize your questions (....if you even know what that means....)
2006-08-09 18:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always hurt the one you love
2006-08-09 18:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Penney S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM.--Did you damage her car?????
2006-08-09 18:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Paris Hilton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋