I like this guy that i work with and i don't want to come on all strong at once but he's leaving for the navy soon and i at least want to tell him how i feel
2006-08-09 17:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by Andy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First and foremost you must ask yourself why you need to do this.
He will be in the Navy for the next four years or longer if he chooses. If he has no idea of what you feel what would telling him now do?
The hope for a relationship went away when he signed up. If you had told him before things may have been different.
There is a good chance he will be assigned to a ship. If so he will be gone, at minimum, 7 months at a time.
How close are you with him now? My guess not close or you would tell him to his face. He will be flattered, he won't bite, and he may have the same feelings for you but, like you, has been afraid to say anything. never know until you ask.
Talk to him, forget the letter. It will mean a lot more to him.
2006-08-09 18:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I can help:
Dear so and so,
I wanted you to know something before you leave. I want you to know that I ...........(whatever you feel).......and that I hope you feel the same way. If you don't feel the same way I will be fine just make sure that you let me know. I will always be there for you if you need a friend. Friendship is means more than anything and I would not want to lose what we have. Please be safe and come back at least as a friend. Good luck and God bless you!
Sincerely,
(your name)
I hope that is some help but that is what I would say.
2006-08-10 00:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by sarah_live4christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety for get the letter...Go right up to him and tell him you would like to take him out for either a cup of coffee or a drink...And then let him know the way you feel about him...You really don't have alot of time to be messing with a letter...There nothing wrong with asking him out before he leave for the navy...I say,Go for it and don't waste time...
Clowmy
2006-08-10 01:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start the letter with:
Dear Seaman,
Always remember - don't ask - don't tell - is in full effect in the Navy.
2006-08-10 00:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy crap. well as a writer, this is pretty cool for me. here goes nothing...
go for the gold. don't hold back, dont beat around the bush, but be romantic about it... that's the point of a letter. it says things that you can't. you don't have to be smooth or shy about it.
2006-08-10 00:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so easy jus write tht i jus wanted 2 tell u from many dayz tht tht tht .........................................
i really luv u so plz don leave.
urs
..........
2006-08-10 01:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by curse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋