he ,always ignors me around his friends should i break up? but around me he seems as if he likes me alot.
2006-08-09 17:43:42 · 14 answers · asked by d.d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you like him then maybe talk to him about it. It'd be better than jumping straight to breaking up. He may not even realize he does it.
2006-08-09 17:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends r guys n lemme tell u: that's what a man does...it's in that part of the "immature brain" ya know? i wouldn't say "leave his triflin behind" as some1 just put it a few ppl above me. That's just how men r. My pops ignores my mama sometime. N don't front, because we women have our little "brush-off ways" 2 now. But a guy likes 2 be free sometimes..let him b with his boys. It's just like u wanting 2 b with ur girls. U wanna talk about girl stuff. Well men r the same way...they wanna talk about guy stuff. U know, they wanna scratch their balls without u catchin them. That's what men do. But if he does this all the time, then u should talk 2 him. I can c if he does it sometimes, but if he does it all the time, talk 2 him. But try not 2 mess with him a whole lot if he's with his guy friends. I don't know y we (males n females) do it, but we like 2 put on a front when we're around our associates. It's prolly not even all that big. But if u feel bad, go on ahead n talk 2 him. But don't just drop him just because the dude ain't payin no attention 2 u. That's immature. U shouldn't drop any1 just because they're not paying attention 2 u at times. Because if u do that, pretty soon ur gonna have 2 drop everybody u know. But don't trip about it a'ight?
Peace n Love!!
2006-08-09 17:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Ask him whats the point of him even bringing you around his friends if he is just going to ignore you. Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable. Let him know you dont expect all the attention but you would at least like him to acknowledge that you are there.
2006-08-09 17:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually dont give mixed msgs or anything.. The fact that u say he ignores u its not because he doesn care or love u but its probably because he's been like that with his buddies and he doesnt notice that you feel bad.. If you dont tell him he will even be surprised cz i bet he doesnt see it like that.. Dont break up unless you know that this guy does ignore you and doesnt love u or care about u.. I just think that u need to tell him that u feel left out when he's with his friends and that he feel that he ignores you... dont be a freaky *beep* who doesnt let her bf hang out with his friends .. im sure u r not like that and i absolutely understand how u feel .. u just need to tell him cz he probably didnt realise..its not good to break up with him for something that he might not even be aware of.. talk to him and tell him ur feelings.. ifhe keeps ignoring u and doesnt show that he loves you then u know what u gotta do girl =P but give him the chance...
Best of luck!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-09 18:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts that way once you and him are around his acquaintances, think of how he could be speaking approximately you on your absence. that isn't a outstanding sign. that is not something which you're imagining or making too plenty approximately the two. He looks like a jerk and you deserve greater perfect than to be dealt with like that. it extremely is extremely useful to contemplate a distinctive boyfriend.
2016-11-04 06:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure Guy = His diagnosis
Have you spoken to him about this problem ?
I think that you should ! I think it is no excuse to make you feel bad about yourself. So he can feel all gr8 and masculine around his friends. I think that you should tell him either to change or you are breaking up with him.
DONT LET HIM JERK YOU AROUND ! He is just an insecure puppy. Show him that you are the BOSS....
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2006-08-09 18:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....look, men are men boys are boys they do s.h.i.t like this because its a ''man thing'' ofcourse hes not going to hug and kiss you every second when the guys are around...thats for the two of you...you need to realize and accept the fact that he, as well as yourself, has other aspects to his his life besides you and needs to attend to them also...if he COMPLETLEY ignores you around them then that is bad and I wouldnt break up with him over it until we talked about it and he didnt change so I suggest you tell him how you feel in a calm and mature manner....if he shows you more attention than he did before around them, then he is trying...which is good enough....
good luck :)
2006-08-09 17:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy dosent want to be near you areound your friends thats not right. If he wants to hang out with them and have guy time thats different. Some guys are just embarassed (even when the girls perfectly lovely) If thats the situation id just leave him. You deserve someone who will treat you right.
2006-08-09 17:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by kelly09620 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a superiority thing, he wants his friends to think he "owns" you and you will follow him around like a dog whether he pays attention to you or not....dump the dummy.
2006-08-09 17:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all try to know if he is doing that accidently or he means to act like that in front of his friends to look like he doesn't care and you are the one who loves and can't live without him, if he doesn't mean it he will change as soon as you tell him, if he didn't do anything about it, leave him as soon as possible, that is an as5.
2006-08-09 17:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sherif G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋