Do you have a replacement in mind, if anything should happen to your significant other?

Question

I am always surprised when someone remarries a few months after their spouse dies.

Answer 1

I have seen this personally. A customer of mine's wife was dying of cancer. Very sad. I don't know what kind of marriage they had, but she was not exactly young looking or young kind of person even when she was healthy.

When she died it took him no less than 2 months to have a young girl move in with him. Completely different, and honestly absolutely air-head.

He seemed happy.

I think he was counting on his wife to pass away.

I lost a little respect for him.

Answer 2

Sad to say, but not all marriages are based on love. More than a few are for money, at least on one side of it. That's probably why some people have someone in mind when their nearest and dearest passes on. Other people simply can't stand being alone, and they go out of their way to find someone as quickly as possible. Still others don't have any idea of how the dating world works; and as soon as they find someone, they latch on and keep hold like a crab.

I'm not married, but I have a live-in boyfriend that I love dearly. I've been with him for two years now, and if he continues to treat me well and shows me that he loves me like he does now, I won't be looking for someone else; either now or after he dies. I'd never be able to replace him.

Answer 3

Wow a few months after their death hm mm did somebody call the cops did they die of natural causes. If you feel you need a what I call plan B than you r with the wrong person and obviously not strong enough to go I like me and I can live with me alone.

Answer 4

Yeah i have a replacement in mind There is this guy and there is something about him that i just can't get over.. but i would never and i mean NEVER cheat on my husband or replace him within a year after his death. i think it is sick seriously for people to go and screw around a couple weeks after there loved ones death. i would wait at least a year! and at least 5 years to get married..

Answer 5

No I don't. Never have had and never will have. To me that in one sense is cheating on your mate unless your mate knows about the other person. And then even at that some might think that you was seeing them all along behind your mates back should something ever happen between you and your mate and you end up with that person.

Answer 6

it depends from person to person and also on the amount significance ur relationship hold in ur life.leave aside death there r cases who just decide to liv all alone once they hav a broken affair.i hav one like this in locality.so v cant b universal in this comment but yes this is for sure that the person u r talking about is more on material terms than emotional.he?she doesnt follow giv and tak just wanna take n take

Answer 7

I have never though of such a terrible thing...And why would anyone have a replacement in mind,Specially while your still alive...

Clowmy

Answer 8

you know my husband is sick right now with lupus. and to think about that day when I don't have him and it makes me sick. we have 3 beautiful boys. and the thought of my boys some day lose there father makes me cry.So no I don't have a back up and for those that do. I feel really bad for them.

Answer 9

NO, when me and this one are over I'm not falling for this crap again, I'm staying single I've always had more fun and enjoyed life more when I was!

Answer 10

I definately don't. I am so crazy in love that it would take me a long time...if ever to "replace" my significan't other.