He always controls my decisions and he wants my attention,we both don't have a gf,he gets mad when I push him to a relationship and he never encourage me for a new relationship with a girl!It seems like wants to control me and being bossy,I am older than than him and more stable!
2006-08-09 17:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by joblow 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
some friend. Ihave the same friend for 16 years and I have never told her what to do. how to be think or any of that. thats not a friend thats an asshole. find a new friend
2006-08-09 17:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The whole situation doesn't sound too healthy.
You say he controls your decisions (which he couldn't if you didn't let him), but then you say he gets mad when you push him into a new relationship (who wouldn't get aggravated at that). Then you say he doesn't encourage you to get into new relationships with girls (that's not his job, and he apparently doesn't believe in involving himself in other guy's relationships with girls). I'm not defending it, but a lot of people are bossy and controlling.
Maybe you should dial back the relationship with this person a little bit. Still be friends, but maybe cut back on how much time you spend together. If you cut back on time together maybe whatever he's doing that you don't like won't bother you as much, or else maybe you'll begin to drift (which may not be such a bad thing).
2006-08-09 17:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't sound too good to me...
I think you should sit down and have an honest talk to him, that way you should be able to figure out what sort of friends you are to each other. Ask him, for instance, why doesn't he want to have a gf and why doesn't he want you to have one either? Do you think he might be liking you as a guy? That's also a possibility, you have to admit it. But maybe he doesn't have too many friends besides you and he is just afraid of loosing your friendship. Which is not very good either. I guess it's up to you to decide what you want from this friendship. If you feel that he is always interfering with your life, maybe you need to take some distance from him.
2006-08-09 17:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by dalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is doing this because he wants to be your saveyour in your life he thinks hes beter than you so thats whyhe wants to control your decisions hunny take it from someone who has cried over a bad friend in the words of the artist called fiest let it die
2006-08-09 17:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTROL FREAK ALEART!
2006-08-09 17:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Penney S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋