I fell in love with this guy and have known him for almost a year.
Even though he said he loves me, he's not in love with me anymore. We've never met and I want to meet him. Do you think he at least owes me that? Oh yea I'm like 20 years older than him too
2006-08-09 17:26:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well sweetheart, I like to have a nickel for every time I seen that in my 22 years of service.. An auful lot of our servicemen write letters to girls and say alot of things wile there away, but I sorry to say that once they come back to the states they run and hide.. Let it go, find someone you can see and be with..Just tell your self that you helped some guy wile he was away... Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-08-09 17:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he does not owe it to you to meet you. He dumped you and that should mean its over and let it go. My advice to you, dont fall for someone before you even meet them. People can be whoever they want to be online behind the screen and be a completely different person on real life.
2006-08-10 00:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by mkw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through. Just like you I fell in love with a Marine on the internet. He is deployed right now, But we plan to meet when he comes home. Would you like to chat with me? maybe I can help you...... Well you contact me if you want. I wish you the best.
2006-08-10 00:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by army_guysturnmeon_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your relationship doesn't appear to be based on the marine and his physical presence. If you both agreed to meet...just to say hi...maybe a quick romp to show him what he's missing.... then sure... thats fine. But he is in NO WAY obligated to meet you simply because you both agreed to have an online relationship. Once a relationship has ended there are no obligations except to give property back to its oringal owner. Any attempts to FORCE someone to meet another person against their will is doing so because they are selfish and immature.
2006-08-10 01:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your relationship was like or how serious it was...but I would say he doesn't owe it to you. Why would you want to meet him anyways? Sadly, relationships end, and I think you should try to let him go, because meeting him in person probably won't fix the problems.
2006-08-10 00:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I don't think he owes it to you to meet you. Really if he says he doesn't want to be with you then it is time to move on. There are plenty of other decent men out there. Don't waste your time chasing after him use it right and find a new man.
2006-08-10 00:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by frog_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lose what you've never had. This was a paper relationship (well, online) and you need to move on. Meeting each other would not serve any purpose at this point.
2006-08-10 00:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly....He owes you NOTHING
Next time don't be so careless with your heart
Look for someone your own age and make sure the person is more than just a faceless Internet mirage
2006-08-10 00:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by LJRobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were in love with the person he allowed you to know. Move on, let him go. He doesn't owe you a thing and don't waste your time and energy on him.
2006-08-10 00:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by sukditup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you . you want a Young guy that's 20 years younger .
but i understand him for not dating a girl 20 years older i would never do that
2006-08-10 00:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋