Would you marry today or.....?

Question

it's better to stay as you are now...in this time of hardships.

Answer 1

It depends. In getting married, there are so many things to consider by the persons wanting to do it. Are they emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally ready to face this new chapter in their lives? Are they marrying for love or necessity? Can they perform their responsibilities well as husband and wife. Can they financially afford to meet the expenses of a married couple? Are they ready for parenthood should a child comes their way?

Depending on the answers for the above questions, the person concerned may decide wisely as to getting married today or giving himself more time to prepare for his marriage so that its success will not be far-fetched.

Answer 2

I've been divorced 2 1/2 years now and I'm finally over the ordeal. I do want to get married again but I definitely don't want another divorce, so I better get it right. At age 38 with no children you'd think it would be easy to meet someone new and head in that direction, but it's not. Maybe I'm still looking for the wrong qualities or looking in the wrong places. Maybe I'm still wearing an "unapproachable" face and I don't know it.But the hardship and pain are finally over and I realize the divorce was best for me. If I could only deal with the loneliness I'd be OK. I guess that's where someone new fits into the equation.

Answer 3

I not only would marry today but am looking forward to it. As a matter of fact I am not getting married until March 20/07 but don't know if I can wait this long and wish we could actually marry this very day.

Answer 4

Yes, there is never going to be a time when something bad isnt going on. for you to say that means you have a fear of commitment and are using the war and current gas prices as an excuse not to marry someone who obviously loves you.
Look at it this way, a human being has decided that they like YOU so much, like being around you, and like everything you do so much that this person wants to be around you for the rest of their life! now that is love. what makes you so special that she would want to be around you that much? think about it. there is richer than you, funnier than you, happier than you, more handsome than you, but this lady thinks this is not true. she thinks the sun rises and sets on you. so practice in front of the mirror and say I DO!

Answer 5

Marriage is what you make it. So is life. Hardships come and go but a loving relationship always prevails.

Answer 6

I'd probably wait until Saturday to get married - that way, I'll still have time to send out invites, and hopefully get lots of cool gifts.

Of course, This would be if I wasn't married already. If I wasn't and wanted to get married - Saturday would be a good day.

Answer 7

its depends on u but marriage can make ur hardship better

Answer 8

if you love a women, you marry her when you feel like it.... assuming that you can acctually afford it.... if you have the money to afford a sort of wedding, and you love a girl and you guys wanna get married, youd get married asap. im not using you as refering to yourself, but as a directive to anyone that would be reading this, as well. so, marry today, final answer

Answer 9

of course. i want to try it once at least.

if im having difficulties financially, as long as they contribute there shouldn't be a problem getting married. it's actually ideal in some cases because you have somebody to share the burden at least.

Answer 10

i'm going to get married on july 7, 2007. that is the right day for us. we are happy now and will be happier that day.