i want to make him think about me all the time and i want him to be the one to say he misses me and cant wait to see me..etc
2006-08-09 17:15:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Play hard to get.
And always remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. If he's not treating you like the awesome person you are, then dump the silly boy and find a man.
2006-08-09 17:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Fingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the first mistake. I know from personal experience. What you should do is desire to be with yourself more and create some of your own interests. I know it might sound hard right now, but give him a chance to miss you. Guys like the chase, not a game chase like cat and mouse, but they like to know that you have confidence and that you could live without him. Think about how you would feel if a guy wanted you to be around him all the time. Sometimes when we want something so much we start acting clingy or in other ways we might not even be aware of. Start living your life, still love him and give each other space.
Confidence, mystery, unpredictability, independence and security in oneself is what good men look for in a woman. I hope this helps. Blessings!
2006-08-10 00:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by caramel_angelkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be desirable! derr. Women... figure this out.. .YOU CAN"T MAKE US DO SOMETHING. WHAT YOU CAN DO... is be MORE attractive... be LESS of a pain in our ass... and contribute more to the relationship than "I think we should talk". Talking ISN"T what guys want to do. We want to DO something. If you want your BF to miss you.... maybe you should be WORTH MISSING. I dont miss my neighbors dog because it barks all night.... and its the cutest fricking dog I've ever seen. Why would i miss it?!?! it's more annoying than cute. If your BF doesn't miss you its because there is something more annoying about you than good.
Seriously...i'm not full of Sh*t. Every action we take is a reaction to the expected benefits and the expected costs. He is with you because the benefits are worth the costs. If he isn't making it clear that he misses you.... then he doesn't. If he did... then the benefit of telling you would outweigh the cost. Obviously... he doesn't miss you
P.S. your bf might not be good at talking. That the simple version
By the way...it seems most of my posts tonight have been negative....s o I apologize... i may just be in a bad mood? Good luck either way
2006-08-10 00:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel sweetie. its so tough. i know you want him to think of you all the time and miss you and stuff cause i'm sure you always think of him and miss him. I've been w/ my b/f for over a year and at the beginning it was like i was all he could think about. and now i find out hes still hung up on his dreamgirl from high school. so right now i am struggling w/ this cause i dont want him thinking about her the way he should be thinking about me. i would probly break up w/ him right now if it werent for circumstances that i wont get into. but anyways this is about you. talk to him about how u feel but dont be too clingy and give him his space. if he doesnt give u the attention that u want and deserve well then u can always find someone eles that will be deserving. good luck.
2006-08-10 00:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Joshy's baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the best thing that I can tell you is to get a life of your own. Not being sarcastic; it's just that it scares guys to have their girl tell them that he is the be-all and end-all for the girl. Just start doing things that are fun for you, even if he doesn't like doing them.Chances are good that you can find a girlfriend of yours that would be interested in going with you. Once he sees that you're having fun without him, he'll wonder why you're not so clingy anymore, and he'll start paying more attention. I guarantee it! And don't give it up; not if you still want to keep his interest!
2006-08-10 00:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal L ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thinking machine of guys and guls are different biologically . He has many hting to think about. finance, career sports world affairs etc. so give him time to think other things too. for free counselling nisaar_yusuf@yahoo.com
2006-08-10 00:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by nisaar for free counselling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are hard b/c we're screwed up human beings and we have to learn to be with eachother. i don't know why you want your bf to think about you all the time, he might already right now. as far as the missing you thing goes, why don't you talk to him and say, "I know you probably do miss me and want to see me and stuff, but it helps my insecurities when you say it."
2006-08-10 00:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by marisha z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the worst thing you can ask for in him. If you do not give him your personal space, your relationship will become disfunctional, and end up becoming abusive, or end in a very tragic way.
2006-08-10 00:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some more time with him and chat alot. Have fun!!
2006-08-10 00:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by I need Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you start calling him and harrassing him he will start to not to be with you you cant make soemone want you
2006-08-10 00:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋