2006-08-09 16:52:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to brake, just hit the brakes!
Now, if you want to break up with your boyfriend of 5 years, write down what you think are the pros and cons. Write down your feelings, read them out loud to yourself (all by your lonesome). Then talk to one of your best friends, who'll act as a sounding board while you do a think-aloud rehearsal with your feelings and the pros/cons of your relationship.
Why all this work? Apparently you aren't too good at expressing yourself or saying what you really mean. Until you master that, you'll be facing a messy breakup, involving some manipulation on both sides probably.
Good luck!
2006-08-09 17:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years is a long time to be going out with somebody. The only way to tell him that its over is to do just that honesty is the only way all the best of luck
2006-08-09 16:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a public place and share with him the great news and then get a restraining order.
2006-08-09 17:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had this same problem. it hurts. but if its the way u feel its the way u feel. u have to sit him down and explain u are two human beings. and u have feeling. ur feeling must go first in ur life. good luck
2006-08-09 16:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest straight to the point.I don't love or want you any more.
2006-08-09 17:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by aftertherain24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to get married...that will scare him off
2006-08-09 16:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by NaijaPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋