my husband really wants this to happen but I am not so sure about it
2006-08-09 16:49:18 · 15 answers · asked by bite_me_harder_28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I am bi
2006-08-09 19:44:28 · update #1
I did this for my husband; it did not hurt our relationship but it was not all that great. I am just not into girls and I think it brought it down a notch
I did like the threeway with a guy he treated me to afterwards.
We have as strong relationship; it probably would be a bad idea if we did not.
2006-08-09 17:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For most people I know who have participated in that, it's caused a lot of problems in the primary relationship. If you're not enough for him, there may be some decisions that need to be made.
Would you really want him kissing and sucking on another chick? The thought of my man doing that sickens me. Ask him how he'd feel about it being with two other guys instead. I'll bet you'd get a much different reaction. Good luck to you. I hope you both do what's comfortable for you and him.
2006-08-09 16:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea for a married couple, especially if one likes it and the other doesn't. It will likely build resentment in the relationship. And bring up lots of issues that aren't worth dealing with in a marriage.
If you were going to do a 3 some, you shoulda done it when you were single/dating.
2006-08-09 16:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys, if not all, would be interested in such a situation! Speaking personally however, I would better prefer to have another guy join us. Just personal preference.
2006-08-09 17:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I have an opinion on this but can't answer here because my daughter likes to read my answers and I don' t want her to know what all her mom and I have done. you can contact me if you want a guys opinion. Good luck
2006-08-09 16:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is actually most of man's fantasy.. are u a bi ? make sure u are comfortable with it...well maybe in return u can ask him to give u a 3sum to with another male..
2006-08-09 19:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am female...hope it's okay if I answer this question. I just wanted to say that you need to think about what you "want". I have heard they can really wreck relationships...not worth that. Just my two cents, had to drop in and warn you.
2006-08-09 17:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be cool but only if she is truly cool about it. Also, you have to have specific rules as to how this would work and have them worked out between you beforehand.
2006-08-09 16:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love it ,, its very healthy for a marriage as long as its strictly sex, its even better if the women are atleast a little bi
2006-08-09 17:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by fordstrong4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been involved, and it was very sexy! I don't know what to say otherwise. It would be a real problem if he tried to get involved...
2006-08-09 16:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋