How can I kiss my bf without him trying to lay me down on the bed and get some???!!!
2006-08-09 16:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by CW 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't kiss him near a bed or anything resembling a bed, kiss him in public, explain your feelings to him and if he doesn't care or totally ignores what you said than he's using you for play
2006-08-09 16:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from beds! You are the one who can call the shots. Draw your own lines. Don't let him touch you where you don't want to get touched and tell him you feel uncomfortable horizontal.
I think it's just a natural reaction. Everybody does this, so it's not your boyfriend trying to be nasty. But, you, dear one are the one who sets the pace.
If you're uncomfortable, tell him to take it slower. If he doesn't
you are not on the same wavelength and he either honors your wishes or you let him go totally.
Good luck, and remember that you don't have to have sex until
you are much older and more prepared. Sometimes a girl isn't
physically matured enough in her early/mid teens to handle it
all-and to be conscientious enough to use birth control. I'd
just let your boyfriend know when it's getting too hot & heavy for
you. If he can't handle it, move on.
2006-08-09 23:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some ideas.
1. Throw away your bed
2. Dont kiss him on the D_ick
3. Knee him in the groin before you kiss him... then kiss him as an apology? lol... i dunno
4. Break some glass....and poor the broken glass on the bed.... wait for him to lie down..and then blame it on the dog (cuz... um the dog can't call you a liar?)
2006-08-09 23:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one............If you are kissing your boyfriend and emitting those turned on signals, it's hard for them to turn their hormonal rages off.........Tell him (in no uncertain terms) that you are not ready for sex and keep an eye on how hot and heavy the kissing gets........Take care, dear...........
2006-08-09 23:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Esay, don't kiss by a bed or anything that provocative
2006-08-09 23:49:21 · answer #5 · answered by Adriana R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of the bedroom? couch? or honestly, just tell him you're not ready for that yet stright up. Dude he's your boyfriend, gotta try to communicate sometimes right?
2006-08-09 23:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by wreckless_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him, and if he forces you to do something more, knee him in the balls, He'll learn real quick
2006-08-09 23:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by camero_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF I WAS N UR SPOT ILL BE STRAIGHT UP WIT HIM AND TELL HIM I DONT WANT SEX JUST LOVE AND IF HE SAY HE DONT LIKE HOW DAT SOUND TELL HIM GET 2 MOVEIN NIKKI
2006-08-09 23:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont kiss him so agressivly. kiss him softly. innocently.
2006-08-09 23:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WITH LOVE
2006-08-09 23:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by russellmcmillen1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋