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2006-08-09 16:36:08 · 16 answers · asked by six7foru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
r u a female or a male?
my parents r over 40 and been married for over 20 years..and i often hear my mom's moans from their bedroom..its grows!!
2006-08-09 16:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 19:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by mendelsohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is in her 40's, should could be in Peri menopause. This is when the ovaries start to shut down there production of hormones. One of the first things to go is libido. If it hurts, she could be experiencing vaginal atrophy. This is due the the lack of estrogen and during sex, can cause her to experience pain. She can get an estrogen cream to help with that from her doctor.
It could also be problems in your marriage that you are not aware of. Do you communicate well? Having infrequent sex is usually one of the first ways to tell. If your marriage has become stale and there isn't any romance or affection, this could put you at risk for having an affair.
If you are serious about keeping your marriage going and she is willing to help herself with learning about Peri menopause and it's affects, you should be on your way to regaining the intimacy that you need.
Here are two sites that can help both of you:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/index.html
and
http://www.project-aware.org/Experience/symptoms.shtml
2006-08-09 19:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest some family counseling, talk to a pastor or minister. If there is stress in the relationship then sometimes this happens, most of the time the truth always comes out. If you are having second guest about infidelity is probably true. Again I would suggest some sort of counseling, this is not normal. Best of luck.
2006-08-09 16:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not mentioned ages or how long you have been together or how other areas of the relationship function.
Sometimes women withhold sex as it is their ultimate weapon if you like. If they feel resentful about other things in the relationship. For example is she the one who has to see to everything in the house, children etc etc. Or have you made time for her in the past, listened to her. I think councelling may help. Also medical check. Not really enough to go on here. But please feel you can mail me.
2006-08-09 20:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Im not 40 but that sounds to me like my past relationship, I would give him those kind of excuses becuase I didnt love him and actually figured out that I never did....I couldnt stand him touching me.
2006-08-09 16:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What’s the deal here man?
Men are meant to have sex with many women or anything that moves.
Just go get a hooker or something… and stop givin us problems
2006-08-09 16:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by evangelionDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could actually be a medical problem. I would suggest having her see a doctor. I will email the rest because it does get a little graphic.
2006-08-09 16:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people never enjoy sex. Perhaps you should talk to your partner and see if this is the problem. If it is then you should have a deep discusssion about what they can do.
2006-08-09 16:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Give me Liberty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot help you here.
I haven't been intimate with my wife in 15 years.
There is nothing I can say and nothing i can do to interest her, so i really gave up trying in 2000.
2006-08-09 16:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋