How do you define a winner?

Question

And how do you define a loser? Are you thinking in terms of material achievement, relationships, inner resources, spiritual values or......?

Answer 1

What is a winner? What is a loser? It is all a matter of PERCEPTION. For example, a very poor family of four living in harmony in a one bedroom apartment could legitimately say that they are winners because they have peace. An upper middle class person might say that this is a family of losers because they don't have any material wealth. So, like I said, it is all a matter of perception. It is up to each individual to define the parameters of what a "winner" is. You also need to consider the cultural implications of what is a winner or a loser. Different cultures have different value-systems. You must avoid being ethnocentric and keep in mind that cultural-relativism is important. Anyway, are you a winner?

Answer 2

ok, for me a winner is someone who never gives up no matter how many times they fail, as long as they have a goal and are determined to get there no matter how long it takes!
a loser would be someone who thinks they know it all and refuses to accept their mistakes or forgive others for their mistakes.

Answer 3

for money, moving up one class of your social status
for relationgship, marry once and never divorce
for spiritual, being 100% your right and everyone else is wrong and will suffer.

Answer 4

it is that stuff thats inside you ...i feel like a winner

Answer 5

Someone who always wins

Someonw who always loses