2006-08-09 16:31:01 · 14 answers · asked by Shannon T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't want to completely avoid fights because fights are a necessary element of a relationship. Just keep them to a minimal of the necessary fights (if that makes sense). I think that if it's something that you totally disagree on, then state it, but if it's something that you could tolerate, tolerate it for a while before blowing up at them. Everything in moderation
2006-08-09 16:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, avoiding fights is very hard to achieve coz....
1. You have to know everybody's perspective on things so you won't offend them in anyway
2. You have to be dead or disappear in a black hole so you won't offend people (LOL)
Anyways, fighting is a constant. It's what brings balance to the order of things.
Best way to avoid fights, as I have learned is, whenever you're gonna say something or do something, think about it a thousand times before you do or say it. Think about what can be its impression on the person you are conversing with, the pro's and con's... etc....
Well, if you do get in a fight, you shouldn't ignore it...
As much as possible, you have to resolve the problem... talk it out in a calm manner. If the argument is really heated, both should have a time to cool off so you could think about what has happened and how can you fix it....
Hope I helped! :)
-R.A.
2006-08-09 16:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Rasui Akira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't totally avoid fights cause you really can't. It's bound to happen some time or another. When a fight comes up speak your mind and work through it.
2006-08-09 16:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-09 16:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by dazed_and_confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguments are healthy, but fights are dangerous.
If both parties are too heated up, take a break , leave, and cool down until you can start talking again.
2006-08-09 16:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be the bigger person if you just walk away. let that person scream shout whatever, ignore them. they will look stupid arguing by there self, but if they swing be ready to fight back or they will keep trying to come for you. ask that person what problem do they have with you.
2006-08-09 16:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by reemdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite your tongue and say nothing. Saying something back, other than agreeing with the person you disagree with is asking for trouble. Just know in your heart that you're right, and time will prove it!
2006-08-09 16:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By becoming an good listener , and once a while intentionally , pick up argument , to give back.When one person is angry other should be calm , I am sure you will manage .
2006-08-09 16:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore,and walk away.Run if necessary
2006-08-09 16:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself how important is it.? there are times when you should speak your mind and times to keep quiet.Use your best judgement.It usually leads you in the right direction. Hope that helps.
2006-08-09 16:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by hillbilly wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋